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As the father of a child who wears noise cancelling headphones , I couldn’t say yes or no to anything . I have two kids , both have idiosyncratic traits from the normal regular , existence . I think sadly that both my kids were cursed genetically in a perfect mish mash of me and my wife . When you have children who have issues such as an asd condition it’s extremely hard not to reflect on your own faults . For many years , I have been told I see the world in a different way than my friends , as in , I’ll go and do something that they would deem irrelevant and to me it’s the most importan

Get ready it goes on for generations mate my grandson has all the same traits I did when young but he won’t be beaten or drugged up with tranquillisers as I was because I get him and we are best mates I understand what makes him tick what makes him happy and sad I hate the four days he spends with his dad every month and can’t wait to have him back with me he is super intelligent and at 5 he reads two stages above his class mates reads fluently writes In Joined up writing and tonight whooped me at an online quiz lol autism Is the next stage of evolution some say ???

Had to have the old girl put to sleep this morning.. she was a lovely dog to have around, caught a good few rabbits in her time and was the reason I first went on this site 16 years ago when I was looking for a beddy/whippet pup... she made 15 years old, great innings for her.. Night Marth's

The different faces of autism:

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Depends what you class as “bad behaviour”, for lots of these kids autism and it’s related conditions absolutely IS an excuse for “Bad”?? Behaviour because they don’t fit neatly into the box created by a one size fits all education system or indeed the one size fits all life system of “leave school, take on massive debt and stress, work so hard it makes you ill, die” It’s torture, and I don’t say that likely, but it’s literally torture for them…..these kids are fighting their own heads every single day trying to fit into our vision of the world and the education system and all the other a

When 'primitive' people tie the knot, the community builds them a house. No impossible mortgage or rent to pay for the rest of their lives.. The community takes on the task of rearing the children not just the parents. Children are accepted for who they are. Not forced into roles and boxes they are not comfortable with. Yes we've got plastic things, goodies and cars but we've lost peace of mind and acceptance. Modern society makes us all ill.

15.5 years ago i got put onto a lad moving a first cross beddy/whipp bitch pup on, finished my night shift on the bridges at the time shuttering and drove to Hereford to get the pup, to say the dog was feral was an understatement it was living in a scrap car and the only way to catch her was with a dead rabbit. Looking back it was the making of what was to be the best bitch I've ever owned. We lost her in December and to say it's as painfull everyday as loosing anything I have in the past including people isn't a lie. I know I'll never get another to replace or give what she did at home and ou

Making a giant sausage roll ,pork meat ,spring onion and chilli wrapped around a centre of cheddar cheese coming on nicely

Four hour slow roasted Lamb Shoulder. Cheers Arry

Yeah we said the same mate, my lad and eldest girl were here looking after her, the eldest girl took a day off work and had her on the sofa all day on Tuesday, they get spoilt rotten at the end eh! Lol I've buried her at the bottom of the garden, between 2 big pine trees, this afternoon, suns up and birds are singing, seemed nice in a weird way..

So if fancie looks like a Jap and not a pale Irish man....we know it's ringer...lol

Not quite lol. But kids in the fifties had no stress because although school was a pain (literally)but there were no such things as scary exams or peer pressure or having poorer quality clothes than other kids because everybody was in the same boat. There was nothing to do in the house so you played out from morning till night. There was the baths, the picture house on Saturdays and bombed houses to explore. There were part time jobs and fights to settle differences instead of bitching on Instagram or Tik Tok. You could literally have a scrap and become friends again in seconds. I had no worr

Grass down and secure, just got to sand it tomorrow and make it look nice ( or as nice as fake grass can look )

Yeah that's right mate, used to write a good few posts before, she was always knocking about in them lol The bitch is got off Haymin is still here, coming up 10 this year...time to think about what next, I suppose..

Contact bangers an mash on here haha anybody else’s word ain’t worth a pile a steaming shite compared to the oracle haha

One of my favourite scenes in movie history……

Decent actor,classic scene.

Ive seen the arm wrestler Alexei Voevoda do reps of them....which at around 265 lb bodyweight is a pretty amazing feat of arm/grip stength.

Trip to the services to empty the waste tank, and this is my new office will probably start in a week or so

Don’t underestimate Francie, he lives clean an got god on his side

Grass has arrived 4 hours late and in two full rolls instead of four, so had to roll it out and cut it, now it’s got to be laid out for a couple of hours before we start putting it down, it’s going to be a late one

Great actor especially in Unforgiven with Clint Eastwood. R.I.P

When I was 13 life changed for me and not for the better. I was sent to a reform school because I had lots of "serious" previous. Crime 1 caught shoplifting in Woolworths. . Crime 2 falling through an asbestos roof we were playing on and landing in a mill with offices which we explored and stole a few biscuits and milk and tried the handle on a safe. It was locked so we giggled and gave up. Crime 3 being found in a stolen car. It was dumped and we used it as a den. Crime 4 being excluded from school. I was sent to a grammar school. I was put in the top class where I was 11th in the first exa

As a species I think its different according to country,some places it feels good to be alive,you bounce out of bed every morning.As individuals it's far more complex,some have a glass half full,others half empty,I had a non-verbal autistic young bloke approach me in a store a few weeks back,he zipped my jacket right up,his carer said to me "Don't be alarmed",i wasn't,we are all wired up different,I gave him a fist-bump and a thumbs-up when they walked off,he smiled.

Well after reading 21 pages of this I think I'm guna stick with the rabbit dog type rather than get into the coursing world

I was in Swansea docks earlier in the week installing a bridge on a shrimp farm, great place apparently used to be a mussel farm for over a decade but shite from the river contaminated the area so often it became untenable as a business , now they're gonna import shrimp from the states and grow them on , but seemed so appalling that the water companies have put pay to a fantastic home grown product Welsh mussels. I was told bass numbers were great when they had the mussels because the ropes etc created a good habitat even held mackerel in the bay , such a phenomenal place ruined by incompetent

Mine were better on mdma

This is the mental image I have of Francie

Sounds callous but at least you got back in time and got to say goodbye mate. I lost my wee staffie not long back and couldn’t/didn’t get back in time to say my farewells. Still seems like yesterday she was showing up gun dogs in the scurries. Worst part of owning dogs is always saying the goodbye

Get your hand in ye pocket ffs you questioning the guy, 200 to charity of his choice is fair as ye get

Yes mate doing the gardens fixing loose slabs and the never ending job of changing the bearers on the pontoons but as there are around 300 births by the time all the pontoons are done it will be time to start again just got to give my notice at the home and it’s a 9am start on my doorstep from then happy days

Your a machine but are asking for health tips I shift more soil on a Sunday morning, digging to a dog than you could shift in a week lad lol

Hopefully grow out of it...lol

Out of likes he looks so much like the big lanky streak of misery on that last photo is unreal

Older dads linked to rise in genetic disorder - BBC News Is this of relevance? I can speak from experience, i was 35 when my son was born. I've got two children with Phenylketonuria (PKU) which is a genetic condition which both my wife and i carry. It means my children's bodies cannot process protein properly if not managed it can lead to physical and mental disability. Thankfully modern science meant we knew about it from birth and the condition has been well managed, both my son (18) and my daughter (16) lead full and active lives, very good academically and socially. I count my blessi

I’d say being the parent of an ASD child makes you realise all the shoe boxes and tick boxes we are made to fit into from cradle to grave…..these kids just say “I don’t want to do that box because it makes me unhappy and I can’t see the logic in that?” The pain is always a parent or the system trying to force them into one of those boxes (be that through ignorance or necessity)…..it’s like pushing someones head under water mate.

here’s one for you @mackem f***ing singapore lol why would i slum it lol jukel give you character and tatse for pot noodles lol funny

10 stone of that's.....the f***ing big chip he walks around with

If this forums anything to go by there a connection between country sports and boring c**ts who talk complete and utter bo**oks.

Met my lady in the city earlier for a meal as I have been wandering around a bit today,met her near St Paul’s and as we were both famished didn’t go to our intended Italian but had Asian fusion overlooking the cathedral,it’s the year of the snake so I had the special dessert.

Type one levelled, sand on, timber edge in and levelled ready for the grass tomorrow

Aye Dan I'd say wee golys 5ft 4 an 18 stone haha

Good offer grey,then we'll find if he's 6ft 1 an 17stone of muscle haha

Just ordered it to my kindle off Amazon though their is a release date and it won't come through to my kindle wile April. I don't know if that will be the same if you order the book version mate.

no stress as a kid ? no wonder you turned into a beta male liberal juk

Go f**k ya sen . A wasn't wrong about you being a plum. Jealousy gets you nowhere. . Get that ugly f***ing mutt out instead of being at on here 24/7.

Well the offers there if you sprout some pubes before your hols let me know and I,ll make you a milky tea in a beacer

Get it removed your run better