Mate, I feel for you I really do, that's disgusting. I'm not forces but I've a fair few mate's who are or ex.
I'm looking forward to seeing my mate Gary who's about to finish his tour of Afgan soon. Some of the stories he tells makes my toes turn and most folks, like that stupid, ignorant feckwit, have no clue, no idea and no respect.
Rise above it, mate, folks like that don't deserve a second thought....
Take care, shoot well and stay safe.
Cheers.