My mates Mrs earns 80k plus as a partner for a mortgage company, tried for a baby for a few yrs,ended up adopting a little lad,my mates not worked for the last 4 yrs,daddy daycare,sends his days doing school runs,cooking, cleaning and tending to his allotment...Hes a good lad,but you can see it's taken it's toll...men ain't cut out for it let's be honest ?