Thats a bit of an old fashioned way to look at it IMO.. The big difference is a woman is more likely to search for something, or more specifically someone from the past to blame and go public if they do something to f**k their life up at a later date.. Blokes just tend to clam up and try to get on with it.. I bet this type of thing goes on all the time with blokes and women all the time and we hear nothing about it.. Maybe, but I can't sit here and honestly say I think it's wrong for a 16 yr old lad to f**k a 20+ woman when I simply don't. But equally I do see something very wrong with a 20+ m