He,s being medically discharged mate....think i told you before about that injury he had,they put him through 2 operations and its still not right......they would of found something for him but thats not what he went in for so taking a nice little pay out....he,s got a few engineering qualifications and plans to set up in a little business they,re staying down that area as they love it there and got friends/work there.....my daughters not the sort to be a stay at home mum and im not being a full time childminder so is a 2 hour drive much different to a 4 hour flight ..... the for and against c