WILF 44,329 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 Just now, Gospel said: Some are mate correct but a lot have everything they want and need plus kids see and watch and it gives them an understanding What about kids never see parents an hour a day mate staying at school going early staying at clubs after does them no good mate Now that is a decent common sense post and we are in total agreement on your last paragraph 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gospel 125 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 2 minutes ago, WILF said: Now that is a decent common sense post and we are in total agreement on your last paragraph I agree mate some of it some inner city estates etc I’d be away but some are descent Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gospel 125 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 2 minutes ago, Rusty2 said: But what's it got to do with where you live lol. Well a scrounger on an estate isn’t working all day all the time just for materialistic things mate are they ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gospel 125 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 2 minutes ago, Rusty2 said: Your right there lol great example for the kids that getting to stay off school and see them scrounger parents meanwhile this kids stuck at school and getting to goto after school activities and hobbies are suffering lol your heads totally pickled ?the kids go to school mate but get up get breakfast with a parent took by a parent afterschool activities lol kids love that rather be there then home and with mates playing lol get a grip plus grandparents they see everyday other family cousins etc get proper food cooked for them get bathed put to bed One parent isn’t always there but home for half 5 say or you both can graft 12 hours 14 by the time you get there back feed the kids shite let someone else bring them up leave them with who ever will have them Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dogmandont 9,363 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 28 minutes ago, Gospel said: Lol ye mate no junkies in the sticks get a grip how the faack is moving away to sticks more out a life ?? I’ll say this mam dad never seeing kids working all hours for an holiday here there spend time with kids thinking that’s the way it’s a materialist way mate and kids suffer I think socks mate I’ll say no more I’ll get banned Is that seriously how you believe everyone in the sticks lives lol. The smog has frazzled your brain cells big lad. Aye there's junkies in the sticks but I don't have to live the other side of a 4 inch wall from them lol or worry about a load of Chavy wee cnuts stealing my car. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 44,329 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 Parenting is a conundrum for everyone. Most folks just do their best and what they think is right. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gospel 125 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 13 minutes ago, dogmandont said: Is that seriously how you believe everyone in the sticks lives lol. The smog has frazzled your brain cells big lad. Aye there's junkies in the sticks but I don't have to live the other side of a 4 inch wall from them lol or worry about a load of Chavy wee cnuts stealing my car. I was one a them little chavvies with the cars easy to take from the road side bk then I’m close to fiElds sticks mate now they out in the sticks burgling for the keys even worse Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gospel 125 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 1 minute ago, Rusty2 said: I'm off. Between covid being a hoax and the evidence of it being "turn off tv". joe rogan telling folk carbohydrates are poisoning the body and now kids are better off in poverty surrounded by smackheads Everyday you come on and it just gets more ridiculous. I honestly starting to believe there is a conspiracy to send me crazy. I'll leave you all to the madness thanks. Lol so all kids on estates are in poverty smackheads all old finished mate very few about now I’ll leave COVID to you mate no 5 tested positive this week at work sniffles for a few day still went out to watch football in pubs etc I eat carbs just not veg can’t stand it never have Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dogmandont 9,363 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 1 minute ago, Gospel said: I was one a them little chavvies with the cars easy to take from the road side bk then I’m close to fiElds sticks mate now they out in the sticks burgling for the keys even worse Doesn't surprise me one bit dude. Council House, no job, caravan out front, couple Salukis out the back lol. Your living the fcukin dream big lad. Lol. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gospel 125 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 Just now, dogmandont said: Doesn't surprise me one bit dude. Council House, no job, caravan out front, couple Salukis out the back lol. Your living the fcukin dream big lad. Lol. Lol i only had me old lady mate she grafted none stop i did what kids do amused me self I was grafting at 12 mate did me apprenticeship at 16 different trades You don’t know what I have mate lol and no caravan at the minute the Salukis are right like lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NEWKID 26,211 Posted July 13, 2021 Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, WILF said: Parenting is a conundrum for everyone. Most folks just do their best and what they think is right. Can't do much else mate, 90% of people do their best in the circumstances they have... I'm sure we've all seen a bit of both sides, so doing your best for the kids and changing the cycle is the best you can do... regardless if your on an estate or out in the country parenting is giving kids your time first and foremost in my book... Edited July 13, 2021 by NEWKID 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Greyman 25,276 Posted July 14, 2021 Report Share Posted July 14, 2021 10 hours ago, Gospel said: ?the kids go to school mate but get up get breakfast with a parent took by a parent afterschool activities lol kids love that rather be there then home and with mates playing lol get a grip plus grandparents they see everyday other family cousins etc get proper food cooked for them get bathed put to bed One parent isn’t always there but home for half 5 say or you both can graft 12 hours 14 by the time you get there back feed the kids shite let someone else bring them up leave them with who ever will have them Mate it’s not the 1980s I grew up on a notorious estate and 40 years back it was much as you see it,my daughter is now an assistant head at a school in a huge council estate, she goes to work every day through all the lockdowns etc to protect the kids from sitting at home watching mum and dad jacking up or witnessing domestic violence every day, the days when people watched out for each other and your neighbours had your back are a thing of the past, sorry to say 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
South hams hunter 8,837 Posted July 14, 2021 Report Share Posted July 14, 2021 8 hours ago, NEWKID said: Can't do much else mate, 90% of people do their best in the circumstances they have... I'm sure we've all seen a bit of both sides, so doing your best for the kids and changing the cycle is the best you can do... regardless if your on an estate or out in the country parenting is giving kids your time first and foremost in my book... Exactly kev, most precious thing you can give is time and regardless of situation we can all afford a few hours to make sure they're doing right can't we. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
South hams hunter 8,837 Posted July 14, 2021 Report Share Posted July 14, 2021 6 minutes ago, Greyman said: Mate it’s not the 1980s I grew up on a notorious estate and 40 years back it was much as you see it,my daughter is now an assistant head at a school in a huge council estate, she goes to work every day through all the lockdowns etc to protect the kids from sitting at home watching mum and dad jacking up or witnessing domestic violence every day, the days when people watched out for each other and your neighbours had your back are a thing of the past, sorry to say Same as the estate I grew up on and the estate that shares our kids school Greyman, actually several more in fact. ALOT of kids went school through the lockdowns but not because they had 'keyworker' parents but because if they didn't go school half wouldn't get a proper meal and the other half would have to see things no kid should see let alone 24/7 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
big sid 1,119 Posted July 14, 2021 Report Share Posted July 14, 2021 correct newkid time is something all young need with their parents and its something no one can take from them , that and a parents love is all they need. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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