No mate ,you can be resilient ,tough ,durable ,brave ,stoic ,or have many more attributes ,but if you can t win afight then some will say your not "hard " ....it's just too silly a word to define things ,...what most folk mean is just listing the attributes they admire ,but words matter ,as the young fella pointed out there is a big difference between ,bravery and gameness ,
For myself I admire ,,(think it's ard ) if when life throws the unknown at you ,when you find yourself on the wrong side of he order/chaos spectrum ,when one is out of thier depth ,physically and mentally ...then the