My two had sports day a couple of weeks ago, one is a natural athlete, takes up a sport and sticks with it, she has had swimming lessons for 6 years now and never misses them, and is also amazing academically, the younger was just happy taking part but i'm sure will succeed in life through sheer determination and strength of character (i hope). But i was screaming on the sidelines, purely because i want them to enjoy it and be happy, and winning makes them happy. I think any responsible parent wants their child to be happy, and nowdays sucess in sport can be financially profitable but i lear