keepdiggin 9,220 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 For the sake of the kids? Yes or no Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kanny 19,389 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 I stayed with my first for that reason ....it was the wrong decision looking back . 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Fly The Boy 330 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 No not a hope life to short.. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mackem 23,799 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 If somethings f****d up in life you can do one of three things,fix it,accept it,or walk away from it,life is very,very short,walk away,your not walking from the children but from something you cant accept or fix. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackbriar 8,568 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 If that's the ONLY reason.......no ! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
keepdiggin 9,220 Posted July 10, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 Good replies was asking for a friend ? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rabbit Hunter 6,608 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 Can you not expand the question KD? If it is literally just for the kids, then walk. But if there's other things that are stopping you going. Try to work it out. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
littlefish 549 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 Life is short....yes.... but walking away from an ex should not mean walking away from responsibility to your children - emotionally, financially or time wise..... 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
blackmaggie 3,375 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 I had a chance of a fling with a good sort but having been married to a cnut i know the grass isnt always greener I'm happy with what I have a clean home a great mum and I can go out with the dogs or fishing when I want for as long as I want withouts any grief but if I fell out of love with her no I wouldn't stop no point making yourself and everyone else unhappy 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
keepdiggin 9,220 Posted July 10, 2017 Author Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 Hard to explain really I think the Oasis song married with children explains my mood. Great mother but a very aggressive controlling and greedy person Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kanny 19,389 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 My girls were all grown up when I left but my lad was only 3 and I'm not going to lie it was a killer at firs but once I got my self sorted with my own place I kicked myself for not doing it sooner because instead of just having time with my lad it was always quality time...its not easy at first but it does open new doors and it all worked out well in the end for me infact it made me . 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MOLE265 792 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 Hard to explain really I think the Oasis song married with children explains my mood. Great mother but a very aggressive controlling and greedy person Is there any other kind!!!!!!! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nik_B 3,790 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 I'd stay for the kids unless it was utterly unbearable and fighting all the time 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Waz 4,208 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 For the sake of the kids? Yes or no I did, i was never really into her either LOL. But I think she knew I was there just for the kids and that id do anything I could, which led to severe piss being taken out of me. Looking back I was naive. If its over its over. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ferretess 230 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 like already said life to short , yes you should always be there for the kids, but doesnt mean you need to put up with any aggression, and to hell with someone trying to control what you do, your a adult responsible for your own life, but bringing up the kids well in my opinion and I dare say I will get shouted at for saying this . But your kids do need both a father and a mother doesnt mean you have to be in the same home though , but try to get on for the kids, and who knows if your not in same house you might get on better anyway. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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