kanny 19,389 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Sorry to hear of your troubles malt. ...I went through similar with my ex of 16 years .It was always more a relationship of convenience ..we split and moved on im now married and never been so happy 10 year anniversary next week...hardest part is with the kids but because we did things amicably there's no silly games and we make it work. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dytkos 17,536 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Hope it stays amicable mate, if solicitors etc need to be involved, them Knut's go out of their way to make it difficult and thus more expensive! Good luck with whatever you decide. Cheers, D. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
VOON 1,313 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Only thing I'd say to you is make sure that if you see wrapped around someone else, you ain't going to say shit, and you nearly have a stroke. You see lots of lads out on the pull with the wife at home, but when the shoe is on the other foot, the shit hits the fan. But it sounds like there's nothing left in the relationship, so you would be better off out of it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
day worker 296 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Split with my ex 8 years ago and it's honestly the best thing that ever happened to me! I don't speak to her anymore and I wish her nothing but Ill! In fact (and no joke) I would very much like her to drop dead! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
neems 2,406 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Split with my ex 8 years ago and it's honestly the best thing that ever happened to me! I don't speak to her anymore and I wish her nothing but Ill! In fact (and no joke) I would very much like her to drop dead! But at least you're not bitter. 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
neems 2,406 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Good luck malt,I hope you stay positive and are both happier and more fulfilled whether you can work things out or not. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
riohog 5,621 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 jeremy kyle is your man he can sort it 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Malt 379 Posted October 10, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 jeremy kyle is your man he can sort it Fuuuuck that shit, I got far too many of my own teeth left intact to appear on his show! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Mal I am really shocked to read this, I was single for 5 years after a 20 year marriage & we tried to keep it civil & it worked for a few months ... but shit happens & he decided it wouldn't work being civil Had a few dates & a very brief relationship 2 yrs ago & I loved being single basically ... then 5 months ago I met a bloke who was a mate of my brothers at school & he asked me out ... I must admit I was a bit put off by his loudness & single bloke pub bender lifestyle I ignored him for a week & he sent a spitty message '' it comes to summat when a bloke has been wanting to ask you out since he was 12 & you ignore him'' nearly 6 months in & its ace I wish you & your Mrs well Mal & I am sure whatever you decide it will work out fine x 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
flipbull 1,139 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 You could try seperating for a while, absense makes the heart grow fonder, if it don't then you have made the right descision, and then stay on good terms. Atb 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
riohog 5,621 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 haaaaaaaaaaaaaa try bating for the other side malt you never know might be just what you need 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RubyTex 1,957 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Well i'm not one to give relationship advice, so i'm sorry to hear this Mal, but it sounds like it's for the best. Atb for the future Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Born Hunter 17,638 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 If it ain't right Mal it ain't right, but you'll know when the time comes. Imo It just ain't worth the hassle unless they're something special. But I'm something of an expert in being hassle free! LOL Genuinely wish you all the best matey. You'll figure out whatever you need to and 12 months down the road look back and be happier for it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Malt 379 Posted October 10, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Cheers guys! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
day worker 296 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Split with my ex 8 years ago and it's honestly the best thing that ever happened to me! I don't speak to her anymore and I wish her nothing but Ill! In fact (and no joke) I would very much like her to drop dead! But at least you're not bitter. Ha ha no not at all! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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