dytkos 17,536 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Split with my ex 8 years ago and it's honestly the best thing that ever happened to me! I don't speak to her anymore and I wish her nothing but Ill! In fact (and no joke) I would very much like her to drop dead! But at least you're not bitter. Ha ha no not at all! f**k off grass Cheers, D. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 44,334 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Me and the wife are considering going our separate ways. We're on good terms, still sharing a bed but both of us feel that there is something missing, something that hasn't been there since the start. There's a pain there that is slowly eating away at both our souls and we've been trying to fix it for a very long time but it just aint happening. Our relationship is strong, but its not a relationship based on mutual attraction or any sort of chemistry between us, never has been. We were both in a bit of a mess when we got together all those years ago with one thing or another and we were what each other needed at the time. We're coming to the conclusion that it might be better to part now and move on rather than carry on for x amount of years and then look back with regret at the time we spent with either of us not being 100% happy with our situations. Don't even know why I'm writing this dear dedrie shit on here, just guess I need some perspective. Has anybody else here been in a similar situation? This is a very sad thing to read from one if the lads on here who I get a good feeling is a genuine nice stand up bloke who I would get on easily with. Without knowing the finer details it's very hard to make an analysis but it sound like you have a genuine affection for each other (or you would be ripping shreds out of each other) All I can say is have a good look at what you DO have between you and what it sounds like you have is Friendship.......don't under value it because some never get it. That's not a bad place to sit and start a conversation from May take a week.....may take 2 years but examine what it is that is not quiet working and most importantly don't get too focused on what's wrong.....give as much air time to what's right. Whatever happens, I genuinely wish you all the best mate.....both of you. 11 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Malt 379 Posted October 10, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Cheers mate! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Accip74 7,112 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Good times ahead!!! Life is short, grab it by the bollocks!! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
whippet 99 2,613 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 go gay it worked for me Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Truther 1,579 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Similar position mate tbh, 30 year marriage and hard to keep the spark going in some ways, but if you and the mrs are reasoning instead of arguing i wouldn't make any hasty moves, if both of you can reason it out without out and out hating each other there,s some hope imo, specially if there's kids/grandkids involved? Better the devil you know mate (both of you) in some situations, the grass might look greener but i don't think it is in most cases, hope it works out for both of you somehow 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Francie 6,362 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 As truther said above mal, hard times an big decisions, hope you make the right one atb pal Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mushroom 12,393 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Just broke up with my Mrs today mate, ah shit happens mate carry on PS tinder is fuuckin awesome Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Brewman 1,190 Posted October 10, 2015 Report Share Posted October 10, 2015 Just broke up with my Mrs today mate, ah shit happens mate carry on PS Grindr is fuuckin awesome What the fcuk is Grindr Mushy ? 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hawki 1,429 Posted October 11, 2015 Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 Just broke up with my Mrs today mate, ah shit happens mate carry on PS Grindr is fuuckin awesome What the fcuk is Grindr Mushy ? you will soon find out Brewman if you buy that gun lol 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
The Seeker 3,048 Posted October 11, 2015 Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 Just broke up with my Mrs today mate, ah shit happens mate carry on PS Grindr is fuuckin awesome What the fcuk is Grindr Mushy ? His five fingers and his palm :laugh: 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lenmcharristar 9,183 Posted October 11, 2015 Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 Just broke up with my Mrs today mate, ah shit happens mate carry on PS tinder is fuuckin awesome bet that Muslim butcher was giving her free meat too haha, the pork sword 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
twobob 1,458 Posted October 11, 2015 Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 Like a few have said you come across as a decent bloke so all the best to you what ever you decide on the plus side you could be in line for a call up to welsh fishing team for next years fishing competition Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mushroom 12,393 Posted October 11, 2015 Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 I find it quite showing of the calibre of some to kick a man when he's more than likely a little down Oh well like I said, I still have tinder ?? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lukey 1,620 Posted October 11, 2015 Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 I find it quite showing of the calibre of some to kick a man when he's more than likely a little down Oh well like I said, I still have tinder ?? Kicking you?? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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