you got your own place now malt , or you sorting selling your old love nest ? are you still friends with your x , and you got another woman .? the reason i say , some women can be right twats more so if thee another woman moved in . i am the only one of my 2 brothers and 2 sisters that not got divorced , the other 4 all have . i got married in 1982, and still feckin with her, got a son 30 , that and a paid for bungalow . it been hard dont get wrong maybe because i messed about alot before i got married and had fair few women that, either way it hard to day with relations