reading some of them posts makes me think that the most important thing you hold dearest to you heart are the ones that arent material and are just memories and thoughts. when people put it that way, and you actually think about things, apart from ym fiance and son, my dads probably the only person not to let me down ever. i love my family to bits but each one of them has done something in the past to make me realise that even your family are only interested in themselves when it comes to the crunch. my own sister talked me into giving her £1000 when it wasnt righfully hers. when my nan died i