Cheers for all the ideas and advice lads, i've realised now my biggest mistake was taking it too much for granted that she loved me, and not putting enough effort into fixing the little problems here and now, but always just thinking, we would sort them out once the bad patch was through etc. Eventually there was one thing too much, and she just snapped, and it changed the way that she had felt about me for years, pretty much in an instant. Now there is nowt much that i can do, other than wait and see if once she has a little space and time, she will decide that she feels like she did before,