I agree mate, and maybe I’m mistaken, but I always assume that when someone brings the subject up that’s what they mean.
And that’s how I read the original post to be honest.
I liked the example you gave a few posts back and I thinks it’s spot on.
My post was really directed at anyone who is talking about fighting, and I just meant that some people have a mentality to do what others wouldn’t but I don’t personally think that’s the same thing as toughness, hard, courage or whatever name we all give it.