the furthest my four year old gets without me is up the stairs even then im checkin him every two minutes ,we all make mistakes where human no ones perfect but id never dfream of going next door for a few beers and leaving him in bed . I personally don't think they have hurt her and I believe they have been punished for their actions in the worst possible way .i like to think im a good parent and if my child was missing I would go through hell and high water to find them, I don't see what there doing wrong here this is there daughter, yes they made a mistake but there damn sure as hell trying