skycat 6,174 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 I also regret coming on here and slagging the saluki boys and the fens, created a rod for my own back, never a day goes past where I wish I had made friends with them instead of enemies... If that is a sincere regret then hats off to you for admitting it. My only regrets are ones concerning my dogs, the biggest being not putting a young dog back on the lead as we approached a usually deserted farm road> she ran into the road just as a Range Rover came flying past: killed instantly. One of the worst days of my life. As far as relationships are concerned, well, lets just say I lived and learned............eventually :tongue2: :laugh: Or put it another way, I kissed a lot of frogs before finding my prince. :laugh: but I guess without the frogs I wouldn't have known what to look for in the prince. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
baw 4,360 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 I also regret coming on here and slagging the saluki boys and the fens, created a rod for my own back, never a day goes past where I wish I had made friends with them instead of enemies... Seriously mate.............are you alright.... I have a big shoulder here for you to cry on....... No seriously I wish I never noised them up under anonymous, it's ma baw, bawless, bawbag, unknown, feathered friend, underdog, baw, lord of the fens, and countless other banned names I've had....... Aye right, I f*****g love it Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TOMO 27,898 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 (edited) not traveling the world with my 2 ozy mates 12 year ago and all my long term girlfriends befor i met my wife,, they were just a waste of time. i dont mean they were bad people, just that i didnt love them, so wasted mine and there time being with them. Edited July 23, 2011 by TOMO Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Buster321c 1,010 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Ive thought long and hard about this , thinking maybe i should come up with a meaningful , honest , view of the regrets in my life . I have none . I regret nothing ive done . I often think things could have been different , maybe i should have madethem different , but i did`nt . At the time i did what was right , and i was being true to myself and my feelings . The outcomes are not always as we would like , but we are all responsible for our actions . I would change a few things about myself though , or maybe im mellowing with age ? I am unable to bite my tongue when its needed most and if i feel ive been `wronged` i can hold a grudge untill hell freezes over . I can easily hold people at arms length , and people that are very close to me are very few in number , again , my choise . But thats just me . Ive always made my own decisions , and stood on my own two feet . Do i regret who i am and what ive done ? No . Maybe i should make the effort to be a bit `softer` round the edges ....... 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lunita 57 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 wish i never went to ireland cos of love stayed there for 10 years miserable without my hunting and living a city life met my ex there who was with for 8 years to be cheated on and dumped and loose my house and job and mates to come back here...lol imagine my life if id given the vet whoi worked with and spent great day together at a show and had wanted to see me again my number when i worked at the equine hospital..ahhh but then i wouldnt have my little girl now Aww....Onwards and upwards girl......look at that wee treasure you have now and you are back with your friends and family.......the other guy may well have turned out to be a waster too.....there's plenty of them about Why did you not just stay in ireland and move away from the city...? Thats a bit of a crap shoot, i'm sorry to hear your fella was a cheating c--t, i'm obviously male but got no time for that crap, And as you say you got a beautiful daughter... i hope lifes looking up for you now... Snap. ahh my house being reposesed so couldnt stay and decided was best for kid to be near my family cos no family in ireland ex was spanish so all his family was in spain...thanks guys was crap at time but dont bother me now i do believe things make you who you are and plus i got back into my hunting and that so its all good..cant wait for next season.. worst thing was grandad didnt speak to me for 7 years before he died as i was with a 'foreigner' i stood by my man ..but now makes you see sometimes you should put your family first cos he was right .. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
baw 4,360 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 It was skycat, err ignore my reply to lab lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
johnny boy68 11,726 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Regrets probably should've regretted lots of things in my life but what's the point of looking back at disapointing things in life it'll just get you down.I've done loads I shouldn't have done but those things have helped make me the person I am today...........they're all part of my personality and don't really regret anything at the end of the day. Regrets are just decisions you've made............some of us make good ones and some bad! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bird 10,014 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Regrets probably should've regretted lots of things in my life but what's the point of looking back at disapointing things in life it'll just get you down.I've done loads I shouldn't have done but those things have helped make me the person I am today...........they're all part of my personality and don't really regret anything at the end of the day. Regrets are just decisions you've made............some of us make good ones and some bad! ,1st it took me along while to know my own mind, prob alot of people wont under stand that.!2nd the other is abusing my body ( drink,cigs,) shagging (any) woman, and 3rd daft martial arts+weights, f****d my hands up hitting things, and lifting daft big heavy weights for what macho crap 4th i really should have tried harder at school, and got a good job. instead of all the heavy manual jobs that fecked my back up now. I JUST TRY TO LIVE DAY TO DAY NOW AND CHILL, love me lurchers but think these will be my last 2 i have now, might change my breed with my next dog.? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnipper 6,695 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 I know i'm not old but I regret messing school up and being such a little shit, probably the same as bird too ending up doing manual work and fecking my back up. I also regret not knocking the shite out of a lot of people who've crossed me over the years. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
andyfr1968 772 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 not staying in touch properly with my brother in the years before he died. missing another of my brothers wedding the death of my son. As Baw's said, it doesn't get much worse than that. I can't imagine how I'd cope if I lost mine. My mums suicide when I was 24 was bad enough but I don't think I could bounce back if I lost my boys. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 mines not being what so many want me to be, but am me ,carnt change that........................ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 oh and that f****n facebook topic Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SNAP SHOT 194 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Ive thought long and hard about this , thinking maybe i should come up with a meaningful , honest , view of the regrets in my life . I have none . I regret nothing ive done . I often think things could have been different , maybe i should have madethem different , but i did`nt . At the time i did what was right , and i was being true to myself and my feelings . The outcomes are not always as we would like , but we are all responsible for our actions . I would change a few things about myself though , or maybe im mellowing with age ? I am unable to bite my tongue when its needed most and if i feel ive been `wronged` i can hold a grudge untill hell freezes over . I can easily hold people at arms length , and people that are very close to me are very few in number , again , my choise . But thats just me . Ive always made my own decisions , and stood on my own two feet . Do i regret who i am and what ive done ? No . Maybe i should make the effort to be a bit `softer` round the edges ....... very wise word my learned friend, And you so do sound like me on more than a few of those lines...lol And like yourself i've had to make decisions that were what i felt was right at the time.... hope lifes looking bright for you since we last spoke... Snap. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Malt 379 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 oh and that f****n facebook topic Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,627 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 wish i never went to ireland cos of love stayed there for 10 years miserable without my hunting and living a city life met my ex there who was with for 8 years to be cheated on and dumped and loose my house and job and mates to come back here...lol imagine my life if id given the vet whoi worked with and spent great day together at a show and had wanted to see me again my number when i worked at the equine hospital..ahhh but then i wouldnt have my little girl now Aww....Onwards and upwards girl......look at that wee treasure you have now and you are back with your friends and family.......the other guy may well have turned out to be a waster too.....there's plenty of them about Why did you not just stay in ireland and move away from the city...? Thats a bit of a crap shoot, i'm sorry to hear your fella was a cheating c--t, i'm obviously male but got no time for that crap, And as you say you got a beautiful daughter... i hope lifes looking up for you now... Snap. ahh my house being reposesed so couldnt stay and decided was best for kid to be near my family cos no family in ireland ex was spanish so all his family was in spain...thanks guys was crap at time but dont bother me now i do believe things make you who you are and plus i got back into my hunting and that so its all good..cant wait for next season.. worst thing was grandad didnt speak to me for 7 years before he died as i was with a 'foreigner' i stood by my man ..but now makes you see sometimes you should put your family first cos he was right .. just gos to show,stick to your own Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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