I always try/tried to defuse the situation, give every chance to think about what they are doing, I still give anyone who fucks me off the "opportunity" have yet to be taken up on it I think it's a great one!! It is they get to hit me once, if they knock me down or knock me out, that's it, forgotten about, I'll shake their hand, if I'm still standing then they suffer the consequences....... I think it's the thought of it as some of the lads I have offered it to could knock me out no problem!!!