kieron1980 17 Posted January 13, 2015 Report Share Posted January 13, 2015 (edited) Just recieved a letter yesterday saying i have been named as a father of a child and also saying ive got to take a dna test and if i dont i will accept guilt and they will take payments.The cost of the test is 250 which i have to pay and she dosnt have to pay a penny. I cant believe they can do this anybody else been in this situation thanks kieron Edited January 13, 2015 by kieron1980 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gamerooster 1,179 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Amateurs mistake........ always give a false name 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
treecreeper 1,136 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 how olds the kid and do the maths? unless you aint been there then tell them to feck off Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wxm 1,638 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 they cant make you pay ? its for her / them to prove your the childs dad ... if they aint going to foot the bill for the dna test then tell them to fcuk off Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tilimangro 1,013 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 im pretty sure they can make you pay now only advice i can give is if you ar ethe father then come t an agreement ith the mother that doesnt involve the csa they will financially rape you cnuts 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Wilkes 2,915 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 If you do that make sure you get a receipt Every time you pay her or better still do a direct debit to her account so you have proof. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kieron1980 17 Posted January 14, 2015 Author Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 I did give a false name but found out where i worked .lf i dont take a dna they will automatically take it out of my bank.ive allready increased my works pension drastically so they then calculate after the that which is15% of my earnings thanks kieron Quote Link to post Share on other sites
shepp 2,285 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Do you think you are the father? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kieron1980 17 Posted January 14, 2015 Author Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 I think it's possible I could be.But she is known as a bit of a slag Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jonah. 775 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 I think it's possible I could be.But she is known as a bit of a slag Then do the right thing. Find out for sure and man up to your responsibilities, if you have any. You will regret any other path you take that might seem easiest now. 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jigsaw 11,809 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 think of the child and forget the financial output,you made it you help rear it, 8 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bobcullen79 1,495 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Pay for the test and sleep sound knowing the truth. Or theres always the Jeremy Kyle show.. As has been said, if the baby is yours, sort out the maintenance between you and the mother because the CSA will skin you if you leave it up to them. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
j j m 6,483 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 it might be worth taking the test just to see if the baby is yours,if its not claim the test money mack end of ,if it is support the kid like the rest of uss have to do Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 I think it's possible I could be.But she is known as a bit of a slag you still slept with her though ..to be honest it would be a blessing if the kiddies dad is someone else judging by the sounds of your attitude 11 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
budharley 945 Posted January 14, 2015 Report Share Posted January 14, 2015 Go and see the girl in question and talk to her stop burying your head in the sand like a fanny you had no problems while slipping her a length . If there is a possibility get the DNA test done all the while you are waiting for the results try and ease the tension between you talk to her tell her how you will be there for the kid with her tell her you will pay out of csa it's better for her she will see more of the money .when your results come back if you are just pay your agreed amount straight into her bank each month , believe me mate I've done it for the last 12 years for my eldest lad . Keep the mum onside at all times mate never be a c**t and always be there for the kid you'll soon realise no amount of money compares to the love of your, child . Obviously if it's not yours your £250 quid down next time stick it in her ass 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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