Waz 4,293 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 I dont think anyones perfect, & im not! I also believe life moulds you into the way you see others. Got some decent mates, helped them out when im able, been shit on by 1 or 2, have been helped out by good mates also. Its the f**kin women doing my head in I cant deal with no more.... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
the_stig 6,614 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 I dont think anyones perfect, & im not! I also believe life moulds you into the way you see others. Got some decent mates, helped them out when im able, been shit on by 1 or 2, have been helped out by good mates also. Its the f**kin women doing my head in I cant deal with no more.... I`ve got loads of friends ----but real mates I`ve got 3 that I`ve known for years one of which is female ,,, Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dytkos 17,981 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 Thats a bit OTT just 'cos Ian B took your avatar pic down Cheers, D. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Millet 4,497 Posted June 18, 2014 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 I have been shit on and messed about all my life from so called friend's but i still come back for more.. how far would you go before you call it a day .. I am the world's worst for allowing such things to happen,...the joke is,..I can always see it coming, from afar,..but I still insist on standing on that live rail, until the lecky hits me... Much of my problem is laziness, pure and simple...and it is oh so easy, to fall in with guys that you know are basically, chancers and users.. It is convenient to jump aboard and tag along with folk, that in reality,..ain't really your kind of people. Back in the day, I would stick with tried and tested hunting partners,.men who,.like myself were no angels and same as me, could be touchy and had their own funny ways,..but were in the main,..genuine... So, what to do...? Well,...you just got to pick yourself up and start afresh,..it is hard having to walk alone and as you get older, your confidence goes a bit. You try to hang out with the lads that are doing a bit, in the hopes that they can inspire you and in some way, make you the hunting man that you once were,...but it seldom works. I think the answer is,.either get yourself a new young wife (I've had the original now for over 40 year ).or get a nice lurcher pup,..stride out together,.walk tall, be proud, knowing that to some wee jukel,.you are still the Man... "Keep your friends close,.and forget about the mistakes,..life really is , too short"....... I have quite a few real friend's one is my twin brother the other is my younger brother the rest have similar Dna..so that must be family ..and a hand full of good folk i can rely on.. a old saying by you stick's in my head and that saying is.. Keep your friend's close and keep your enemies even closer.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Millet 4,497 Posted June 18, 2014 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 Thats a bit OTT just 'cos Ian B took your avatar pic down Cheers, D. Did you get your brush.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dytkos 17,981 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 Yes mate sorry meant to PM you but forgot Cheers, D. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Phil Lloyd 10,739 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 (edited) In reality Millet,...unless you are in the Mafia,.where, for safety's sake, you do need to keep abreast of things,..or get whacked... It is best, not to keep close to folk, that have gone out of their way, to be nasty to you,.... No, the answer is to keep as far away from the c**ts as you possibly can and try not to allow such drama to happen again.... Well,..until the next time..... Edited June 18, 2014 by Phil Lloyd 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Wilkes 3,164 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 4 year ago i cut ties with all my family and all my so called friends...why ...because I was being used..simple as that. I only have one hunting partner and i trust him..It was a difficult decision cutting ties..but now..as the advert says..I FEEL EPIC! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
irishnut 297 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 If you have to ask "how far/much" then I'd say its already way past the mark for cutting loses. Life's too short to dance with ugly women. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
inan 841 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 (edited) I have been shit on and messed about all my life from so called friend's but i still come back for more.. how far would you go before you call it a day .. I am the world's worst for allowing such things to happen,...the joke is,..I can always see it coming, from afar,..but I still insist on standing on that live rail, until the lecky hits me... Much of my problem is laziness, pure and simple...and it is oh so easy, to fall in with guys that you know are basically, chancers and users.. It is convenient to jump aboard and tag along with folk, that in reality,..ain't really your kind of people. Back in the day, I would stick with tried and tested hunting partners,.men who,.like myself were no angels and same as me, could be touchy and had their own funny ways,..but were in the main,..genuine... So, what to do...? Well,...you just got to pick yourself up and start afresh,..it is hard having to walk alone and as you get older, your confidence goes a bit. You try to hang out with the lads that are doing a bit, in the hopes that they can inspire you and in some way, make you the hunting man that you once were,...but it seldom works. I think the answer is,.either get yourself a new young wife (I've had the original now for over 40 year ) or get a nice new lurcher pup,..stride out together,.walk tall, be proud, knowing that to some wee jukel,.you are still,...... the Man... "Keep your friends close,.and forget about the mistakes,..life really is , too short" The only way to find out if people are trust worthy is to trust them.It can be both emotional,and time consuming, and not least an expensive business. If they let you down ,relegate them to the acquaintance category,then they'll not dissapoint you again. Old Stat said to me," you can lock your dog in a cupboard and piss off out for the day,but when you come back and let him out he will still jump up and lick your face" pleased to see you. Apart from a genuine and true life soul mate where can you match that love and loyalty? As you know I cut my ties with a long term hunting partner,no recriminations, we are both doing our own thing. Life's too short to be doing what you love with someone you are not jelling with.Accept it and move on, that's my theory, you can still be cordial when you meet but go about your life and interests your way. Phil you are very fortunate to have had a wonderful partner in life for such a long time,and just as fortunate to recognize it. .After several false starts ,most of which were my fault I'm in the same situation and making the most of it. Edited June 18, 2014 by inan 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Brewman 1,192 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 Having been shit on before but not to badly I have one best mate and another mate and that's it. Best mate lives across the water and don't see the other one very often. I'm not complaining as I've always liked my own company, the person who I would trust most in the world would be my sister as she pretty much raised me up. If my marriage broke up I wouldn't bother with another relationship I would just bring my kids up best as I could and have my dogs for company and fcuk everyone else. Look after yourself as assume no one else will. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Waz 4,293 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 THANKFULLY.......THERE ARE SOME GOOD FOLK OUT THERE. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RemyBolt 420 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 Thats a special kink being shit on maybe you need to see a shrink and no post on here ? Believe me i don't need no shrink .. What about a grammer teacher? haha I believe the old adage that you become the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. Choose your friends carefully. You'll become like them. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
inan 841 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 Thats a special kink being shit on maybe you need to see a shrink and no post on here ? Believe me i don't need no shrink .. What about a grammer teacher? haha I believe the old adage that you become the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. Choose your friends carefully. You'll become like them. Yeah what about a GRAMMAR teacher? 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
squab 2,875 Posted June 18, 2014 Report Share Posted June 18, 2014 I have been shit on and messed about all my life from so called friend's but i still come back for more.. how far would you go before you call it a day .. not as far as you that's for sure Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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