Now all the anger has hopefully died down I shall answer your strange outbursts,
I use that lane simply to get from one lot of permission to another, I use it no more than I did before you moved into your girlfriends rented cottage, it is also a main route when picking up and dropping off my mates who live nearby in Neston, I also used to meet your exmate John for wood and logs, nothing malicious and I can only apologise if it upsets you or causes you paranoid delusions, I shall simply find another route.
I hope you stop these odd outbursts now and enjoy the rest of your life in the co