Not sure putting your son in care to teach him a lesson was a wise move really.
just making him feel unwanted-unloved and its not a nice feeling for an adult never mind a child.
i was brought up in care from a very young age ( best thing that could of happened ) as my foster parents were/are fantastic people
but as i was growing up my fosterparents took in children for short term ( school holidays-weekends ect ) and some of the storys id heard off these children were really sad and there bad behaviour in my personal opinion mainly come down to feeling neglected.
obviously you always ge