I know a bloke quiet well (an African ! Shock ! Horror !) and his sister does foster care for kids in the criminal justice system.
These kids will typically be 12 to 16 and almost always gang affiliated and all black.
She recently had one lad of 14, he was one of the main men in a big London street gang….he was accused of murder and a suspect in at least a further 3 murders.
Anyway, they are sat at the table having dinner and he says to her:
”You have money don’t you, I mean you are pretty well off?”
So she says “Well, not really, just comfortable, why do you ask?