You know her that well that you reckon she'd speak to an old lady like that? How can anyone go on about having a discussion with logic when they're coming out with things like that?
I also think she shouldn't of started mouthing off the way she did, it was disrespectful swearing in front of peoples kids like that but what you said there is pure nonsense IMO. It isn't just hating someone because of their colour! It's that (like millions of others) she's seeing the very moral fabric of society change and take a turn for the worst, she's surrounded by people who are alien to her who she