Blimey! reading some of these comments makes me realise how lucky i am, i like my in laws very much, if I had not married my wife, i would still of liked them, they are very kind, generous people, and the care they gave to my children in the early years was priceless, I told them if they want to give their other 2 children (whose offspring they did not look after) more money as inheritance i would not mind one bit! Looks like i won on the in laws front!!
Cheers. Aled