I agree with you mate, went through it all a couple of years ago with both my grandparents.
But the thing is mate, I or nobody else was to know what was going on in their minds.
My grandad and grandmother loved life and loved his family, no matter how much suffering he was in who's to say he wasn't enjoying that moment of being alive and with his loved ones?
We all know fully well that our views and opinions are not set in stone, who's to say ones thoughts on death can't change when the pearly gates come knocking?
Like I said, it's a very difficult subject to discuss and