lukey 1,621 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 i got more than my fair share of overly heavy handed round the ear when i was a young un.....seems after a few sessions of hypnotherapy it transpires thats one of the main causes to my crippling stammer.. so yeh f**k it bray away just think about the affects in later life... That's easy for you to say. You dont have to tell him twice ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackbriar 8,569 Posted July 1, 2015 Author Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 (edited) Another time, she was going out to work, and me (being the oldest) was told to make sure my sister ate her tea, and dad would be late home from work, so I'd have to stay in. Well, I had planned on going out to play football or whatever, so (under my breath) I muttered "F***ing hell".....like you did at that age, and life had dealt you a cruel blow......... She must have heard me, because in an instant , I feared for my life..........curled up in a ball in the corner of the kitchen and, of course, being belted in time with the words ! Edited July 1, 2015 by Blackbriar 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
sussex 5,803 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 We got a smack of the old fella , never could understand why , me and my brother were Angels ..we never did any thing wrong , beacons of joy we were ...it seems one or two incidents that we were wrongly blamed for blotted our record . The shed was old and needed replacing , the firemen had it out without to much bother ! ..proper warmed our arses he did ..as for my kids my son pushed everything to the limit , my wife would ask him to do something time after time , I only asked once ..my daughter was an angel ..when I talk about it know my boy admits he was a shit , never grew up until he was twenty two , now thirty nine he's just told me I'm on the grandfather job ...did the odd smack hurt , can't think it did , we get on brilliant , he's got a great job , is a black belt , runs a couple of evening classes teaching karate been to ten times more places than I have and is at a great age to start a family .. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
neems 2,406 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 People should be allowed to smack their kids as long as there's no lasting damage of any kind. We've only done it when they do something completely unacceptable,trying to hit animals,bullying younger kids/girls,biting etc Doesn't happen often,but right from the get go they need to know some things are completely unacceptable even before they can understand why. But if someone else hit one of mine and there wasn't a very good reason,I'd want their knee caps. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackbriar 8,569 Posted July 1, 2015 Author Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 (edited) When I was 16/17 I was a right ba5tard to my mam - lippy, argumentative, disobedient. One day, she was in the kitchen, and I was driving her to distraction..... as usual ! She suddenly turned and raised her arm, threatening to lamp me one. I flinched, turned and ran...straight into the door frame and knocked myself out ! It must only have been for a few seconds, because when I opened my eyes, she was still standing at the sink. She looked over her shoulder and said to me "And you needn't think you're laying there all day. There's washing wants putting out !" Edited July 1, 2015 by Blackbriar 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mushroom 14,002 Posted July 1, 2015 Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 Lol Malt I once came home smelling of cider at 13.... My fuuckin dad grassed on me I'm quietly watching heartbeat with the parents trying to cover it it. You know how it is lol. Me mam says "k" come here give me a kiss... Shiiiiiiit I thought and sure to be true, whilst sat down, she slapped me into next week 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackbriar 8,569 Posted July 1, 2015 Author Report Share Posted July 1, 2015 (edited) If I get a bit cheeky nowadays, she still tells me "You're not too big for a belt, you know !".......... I'm 52, she's 73 and I'm about a foot taller than her - and damned straight she still means it ! Edited July 1, 2015 by Blackbriar Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wales1234 5,679 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 Blackbriar my uncles the same 74 and a old jocky I'm about half foot taller and a 22 year old rugby player If I start getting arsey he still says I carry on and he's gone belt me lol the older generation are tough as nails !! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hubbs 178 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 I think it's a hard one , any decent human will do it leave it proberly feel guilty , it really gets me when you have you're local scum slap a 3 year old across the face in the shop as there screaming and shouting , I think these are the reason laws are in place not for you're normal parent trying to teach right and wrong 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
truescot 234 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 I would not tolerate anyone slapping a child in front of me! That's no internet hard talk either! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jacknife 2,005 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 I would not tolerate anyone slapping a child in front of me! That's no internet hard talk either! But it has nothing to do with you If someone kid has done wrong and the parent gives them a clip across the arse that is their decision to make not yours Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Accip74 7,112 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 Whilst on the subject............the Australian mini series The Slap is excellent viewing.......:-) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
truescot 234 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 He said a slap across the face! Do that to a child in my presence and I will soon make it my business! And shame on any adult who chose to ignore that! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jacknife 2,005 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 He said a slap across the face! Do that to a child in my presence and I will soon make it my business! And shame on any adult who chose to ignore that! Hitting a 3 year old across the face is going to far I think when most people go on about hitting kids or getting a clip as a kid it a lot older Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 49,639 Posted July 2, 2015 Report Share Posted July 2, 2015 It's one thing to give a kid a quick smack on the bum and quiet another to give a kid a beating. I think I have had to smack my kids bum about twice in their entire life......that's not to say that if I hear them being rude to their mother or behaving like an animal they won't get another stinger across their arse no matter what age they are. I saw a big fat malt beating her little half chat kid (who must have been about 3) as I was driving along once, stopped the van and got out and told the fat c**t that if she laid hands to the kid one more time I would beat her brains out......."beating" a kid is not the same thing as a sharp stinger on the arse and the two should never be confused. 11 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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