Men only bars weren't about exclusion or hostility and definitely not bullying. They were about camaraderie and identity. In the old days men had more respect afforded them. Nowadays, if you've got a cock, you are seen as a potential sex offender who is mysoginistic, and a threat to society. With all this blurring of lines, men don't quite know who they should be. Nothing wrong in a accepting that men and women have different interests and abilities. The likes of Loose Women, soaps, Love Island and Reality TV in general leaves me feeling genuinely confused. WTF are they about? I don't want to