Mate of mine nursed his wife for years until she eventually died. After a period of mourning, he went travelling to clear his head, stopped in Thailand and ended up with a Thai woman in her late fifties! He went to live there ,but didn't understand the concept of family in Thailand. About a dozen relations of the woman came to live with them. He realises now he was taken for a mug, but can't move back here as he's broke.
Another friend of my son met a Thai woman on line, she came over on a visa and went back with all his money to 'buy a lychee farm'. There was no farm. Took him for all he