My moms neighbour faught for 4 yrs to get her grandson from various fosterers , he was a 9 month old baby when his mother had him taken from her he was nearly 5 when they got custardy of him, they had him odd days & as time went on they had him for full weekends , but in the first place they were watched like hawks when they had him, went to court to fight for him lord knowns how many times but won in the end