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My bitch would drag it into her crate?
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Is it ok to use hibbiscrub on an open cut as a wash or shall I stick to salt water .. its nice & clean atm ?
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Last zoo I went to was the welsh mountain zoo, about about 20 yrs ago, they had a lovely old silverback gorilla who came up to the glass that made the day for me ,
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my bitch 13 month old is full on when meeting other dogs , she just wants to race round with them , dont dogs get a bit '' guardy'' when there on there leads & restrained anyway in some circumstances?
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I am watching the final down the pub I managed to see the first goal then the dodgy box went berserk & by the time i found a stream that worked it was over?
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where i work has no means for anyone to progress through the company so basically we are all the same but not one of them when they had the chance to have there say opened there mouths regarding working while the place was a building site last year they got the health and safety involved instead and there was a lot of things they had breached light working at height etc, dust , noise . Most companys are the same these days ... anyone who dares to speak out is basically seen as a trouble maker & there time there is made as uncomfortable as possible in the hopes they f**k up or f**k off
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My pup just 13 months old now , think she has stopped growing now I need to measure her but I guess she is about 17tts , a solid compact little bitch just big enough for me
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Thats spot on , the place would fall into chaos if they had to stop the production & get them to do there own cleaning if it wasn't done by us
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I am employed by the company I clean for its basically zero communication thats the issue having no qualifications so to speak if I find another job its will be the same... payed from the neck down roles are always like this in my experience
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I am thinking of giving acas a ring about my job, I work as a cleaner there are 3 of us & if we are 1 down we have to do our own sections & split the 3rd section between the 2 of us, we only get an extra half hour added to the shift to do the extra work. the last month one of the cleaners has been calling in sick & on 3 occasions myself & the other girl have had no notice off the company we are expected in early to cover, so the works still been done but it dont look like we will get paid for it because we clocked in our normal hours Getting a bit fed up of it now ,
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Looks like the press have started to turn on the dad, in the sun its reported that he stabbed a 14 year old twice over a row about a bike & the lad who was near death as it punctured his lung but his life was ironically saved at Alder Hay , The press work in strange ways , they have been supportive of the family so far , so why rake this up now . whats there agenda ?
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Its sadly turned into a media circus now, this Wannabe lawyer unofficial legal rep for the parents is more bothered about suing the hospital than the child's welfare , far to much addressing the '' army'' outside the hospital now for me to champion there cause, one min he is breathing on his own then in the next breath there giving the lad mouth to mouth because his lips have been turning blue. quite frankly its become to distressing to read the updates I genuinely feel for them as parents it will be hell on earth
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My thoughts at present the hospital are saying it will take 3 to 5 days to move him home because they know the family will take him to Italy once he is out of there care , he has been breathing on his own now for nearly 24 hours, the other excuse is they think the staff will be attacked by the people outside Bollocks to that , if theirs a military helicopter ready to move him then get on with it , letting him starve to death far more in humane than continuing with life support
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One flew over the cuckoo's nest Jaws Personal Services Danny champion of the world Oliver
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How about Keith Blakelock day ... set about by a baying mob for doing his f***ing job
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I would come out of my corner & fight like a shithouse rat now Wilf & if I knew of anyone who was in the same situation now I would plead with them that they left the situation, sticking a tenner on a lass's secret mobile so they have at least got the means to contact a confidant , sometimes its easier to have people that have no emotional involvement on side rather than family, i know how his family packed together when we split up so god knows how that lot would have reacted if i had managed to get the kids away & clear off very probably a fatwa At least now you can search -
Its not always people '' wont'' save themselves..its having the tools to enable you to do that, if you have no money to speak of or transport to enable you to get away lock stock & barrell , ok in an ideal world you stick the kids in the buggy & pop off to the council , on the bus they say oh thats terrible ...hang on heres the keys to a fully furnished 2 bedroom ground floor flat...dont worry about him he will never find you because we will change your name & on monday morning at 7 am a taxi will pick you up to take you to your new job & the babysitter will be that at 6 30 to
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It might do in this day & age but back then it would be a domestic & unless he had beaten me to a pulp & hospitalised me then no , you wouldnt report rape in them days let alone a bullying husband
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In fairness outside agency's dont normally become involved until theirs been a serious crime committed , stabbing or a gun crime or a child is hospitalised as a result of a domestic & then questions are asked , I imagine in most cases unless the social services take it out of your hands you will go back to the abuse... I guess its like Stockholm syndrome . A few of you seem to be getting in a lather about it... if you tell the old woman she can only have 1 week in the Bahamas instead of the 2 weeks you usually have , i dont think she will have you carted off & prosecuted
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For a lot of people it will mean this kind of abuse is seen as a crime rather than a domestic
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I fundamentally consider adults to be responsible or have the free will for their own actions, yes if your not the primary carer of children .... you cant decide to go away for a weekend & leave the kids to run them selves ... once you have kids they figure in every second of every day of your life.... you plan life around there needs & as you have clearly never been in a controlling relationship you wont have come across the phenomenon of '' I cant manage on my own'' Alot of women actually believe they cant manage without the abuser , there brainwashed into believing th
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It reminds me of Educating Rita...she was married & worked as a hair dresser ..her old man wanted the stereotypical family & sat night in the pub having a sing song with the family...she wasnt happy just plodding on doing what was expected of her so she went to night school ... she had to hide her contraceptive pills from him & he found them ... he also burnt her books to stop her studying ...its simply a form of control I wanted to do a diploma in criminology but I knew if i had booked the course it would have been a nightmare .... I will do it before I get to senile ... wo
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Dont sugar coat it... each story will be different , my case is if I had tackled the control element in the early days he would probably have been a quivering mess once tackled... but I am older & wiser now ...on the other hand he may well have done some physical harm ...at the time I wasnt going to risk it ... I would have walked away if there hadn't been the kids to consider . I can understand its hard to see this kind of situation unless you have witnessed it or experienced it first hand over a prolonged period of time like years & decades for a lot of people it becomes normal
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This kind of treatment goes on in millions of homes ... we only hear about it when someone dies at the hands of the abuser or the victim fights back & it results in a death ...man & women both get abused .i guess women are more likely I remember its why they invented family allowance for women whos husbands came up the pit with there wages & drank it away
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100 % spot on John, I can only draw from personal experience & I couldn't confide in anybody because I knew he would make my life a misery if I did. & I didnt know if he would harm the kids, that unspoken threat loomed over me 24/7 ... I think people think you have to be beaten to a pulp for it to be abuse & control issue. Things like him hiding my sons asthma meds & then them re appearing & him saying it was there all the time & it was my hormones & my baby brain.... he stood over me while I ate, he prepared food & he went through the bins incase I had had
