You, like me mate, and many others have allowed it to happen and in that sense we are partly to blame.
explain how have we allowed it to happen ?
Did you do everything you could to stop it? Not insulting you but these things have happened right in front of your face and unless you truly did everything you possibly could to stop it imo you have allowed it to happen, same to myself in my country. The point is to look to the future. Atvb. you say did I do everything I could to stop it , explain to me what I could of done to stop it , for example??