I v just been arguing with RFYL , and I,m begining to wonder if it,s my fault ,my problem is with banter , I know what banter is , but without seeing someones facial expression , tone of voice etc to me it just seems like insults . I have an old fashioned attitude to being insulted ,but am I taking umbrage at someones banter ? Maybe I,m too old fashioned for this t,internet lark , anyway you ALL have my best wishes .