JJm ive been in the same boat and ive put all my property s into a trust then the will is split between the 2 step kids and the grand kids my daughter gets nothing not that she should ever need it shes 27 and a partner in a firm of solicitor s on 100k + and flying another year and she should have her QC , i had to write a separate letter to say why she wasnt in the will it can be done but make sure you do it right then theres no arguments