Poignant Question

[mushroom 14,155]

Just now, WILF said:

Same difference ! lol 

'kin southern c**t lol

[WILF 50,727]

Just now, mushroom said:

'kin southern c**t lol

The best thing I ever read about Blackpool was “They call it the golden mile because it stinks of piss” ! lol 

[Councilestatekid 2,136]

I personally wouldn't and if my kids went and had a good life else where wouldn't want them to either. You say she has good support and family there etc. And there's not over much you can do and would she really want you to give up a good life for her? Knew my ma didn't want that went spent her last week with her [BANNED TEXT] she died [BANNED TEXT] on end of life care and she even said that.  said that pal but only you can make them choices everyone different 

[WataWalloper 3,836]

1 minute ago, Councilestatekid said:

I personally wouldn't and if my kids went and had a good life else where wouldn't want them to either. You say she has good support and family there etc. And there's not over much you can do and would she really want you to give up a good life for her? Knew my ma didn't want that went spent her last week with her [BANNED TEXT] she died [BANNED TEXT] on end of life care and she even said that.  said that pal but only you can make them choices everyone different 

Both my ma an my granny said same thing to me, but the smiles when I was there said diff 

[Councilestatekid 2,136]

4 minutes ago, WataWalloper said:

Both my ma an my granny said same thing to me, but the smiles when I was there said diff 

Yea same pal but after 2 days bein there she just slept after gettin all drugs in her and waiting for inevitable. And like she said last year when bed bound wouldn't want me helping her toilet or shower etc and when did go see her chat for 10 mins she'd be back asleep so happy to see me like you say but happier I didn't give up what I was doing for her a few visits made her just as happy mate 

[mushroom 14,155]

Turned my old man's life support myself lads.... Not the same as necking a rabbit, that's for sure.

[gnipper 6,836]

Do what your heart tells you

[mushroom 14,155]

24 minutes ago, gnipper said:

Do what your heart tells you

Head and heart are ancient adversaries mate. I'm genuinely lost on this

[dai dogs 2,093]

Go and see your Mam if you don’t you will regret it the rest of your life if my Mam was still alive I’d be spending most of my spare time with her 

[mushroom 14,155]

11 minutes ago, dai dogs said:

Go and see your Mam if you don’t you will regret it the rest of your life if my Mam was still alive I’d be spending most of my spare time with her 

This is exactly what I'm thinking mate.

[waltjnr 8,120]

What will, you going home achieve? If shes looked after ,some family around ,and in her condition, would she be aware your there ? I've my brother,all the rest can fk off ,not the greatest family ,mrs and son the exception, think this is your decision, a tough one ! 

[welshphil 241]

Mush, if the boot were on the other foot and you were ill but your Mam was in good health what would your Mam do? I'm guessing she'd drop anything to be with her boy 

[waltjnr 8,120]

9 minutes ago, welshphil said:

Mush, if the boot were on the other foot and you were ill but your Mam was in good health what would your Mam do? I'm guessing she'd drop anything to be with her boy 

Sensible answer! 

[mushroom 14,155]

25 minutes ago, welshphil said:

Mush, if the boot were on the other foot and you were ill but your Mam was in good health what would your Mam do? I'm guessing she'd drop anything to be with her boy 

I wouldn't ask her too mate.

[mushroom 14,155]

Yet I have an obligation/need/want.