nitestalker 28 209 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 hi all a couple of weeks back a friend said he knew a guy looking to rehome a japanese spitz bitch we were looking for a pet to have in the house with the kids so i contacted this guy he brought her into me . we wanted to see how our little boy would be as he is autisic he took to her right away which was a big suprise . the guy explained all bout her his daughter was in college had lost interest and he dont like dogs at all .the bitch settled in perfect and kids adored her all great . then this week i get a call guy wants her back daughter wants her home thats it . i explained im sorry but she is part of the family now i cant take her from the kids now especially my boy . he was adamant he was taking her and thats that i got f****d up told him to go f**k himself im keeping her and thats it not my fault you got rid of a pet your mistake your 20 year old will get over it quicker than a 3 6 and 11 year olds ive heard no more since and dont think i will was i right or wrong wat would you have done Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 29,833 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 Regardless whether the dog was " free " or " rehomed " however you want to word it...............always pay money,if youd of give him even a piddly 50 quid out of goodwill this situation could never arise......and even if it did you paid your money the dogs yours. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AirgunGuy 362 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 The dog's yours mate. You done the right thing telling him to fcuk off. Personally i think he was being a cheeky cnut to come and ask for the dog back 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nitestalker 28 209 Posted October 15, 2012 Author Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 Regardless whether the dog was " free " or " rehomed " however you want to word it...............always pay money,if youd of give him even a piddly 50 quid out of goodwill this situation could never arise......and even if it did you paid your money the dogs yours. thats the funny thing i offered him money would not take anything he just wanted rid he was going to give her to the dog warden if not and she is beautiful and so clean and well behaved a joy to have . i wud have payed for her not a problem 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
B.P.R 2,798 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 IMO nothing wrong with the guy asking for the dog back. Things might have changed personalky for you in the time you had the dog and it could work out best for both parties..... BUT they guy must leave you be once you say 'no thankyou, the dog is staying'. Chances are, the girls jealous and now wants the dog back. In a couple of months when she is fed up then he would be back. In the meantime you would have got another pet. In short, your right. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nik_B 3,790 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 Done the right thing...dogs arn't for droping and picking back up when u feel like. They sound like the dont deserve to have a dog. ATB Nick 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hacket19 6 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 hey mate i would nt lose no sleep over this you definetly done the right thing like you've said his 20 yr old daughter will get over it quicker than your kids he gave you the dog its yours good luck with it mate 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tam O'Void 297 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 Dog Gifted...It's Yours .IMO.. If it didn't work out for You..then he gets first offer of a Return..if it's going elsewhere.. No way should he be expecting a RETURN..where you BABYSITTING it for Him !!!! Rank out of order....But with Dogs anything goes with some folk ! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lanesra 3,961 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 I wouldn't return the dog , A. The Kids and B. He/She don't deserve a dog . . . Tell him to get his daughter a Teddy Bear and when she gets fed up with that he can put it in a cupboard ready for when she decides she wants to have it back again . . . Hey Presto out off the cupboard it can come !!! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gamerooster 1,179 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 or if his daughter is good looking, she could have me, i dont mind!!! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
northern lad 2,292 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 The dogs now yours,not a prayer of getting it back,end of... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
The one 8,406 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 sounds like hes waited long enough for you to get attached to the dog ,maybe hoping you would offer up some cash ?. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 Get it pts then give him a call saying " aye mate you can have it ". Just messing , your in the right here, don't lose any sleep over it. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kenny14 656 Posted October 16, 2012 Report Share Posted October 16, 2012 Nothing wrong with him asking for it back, but once you said no and gave your reasons he should've accepted it and walked away. You did the right thing on all counts, especially the main one which is your kids happiness. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lab 10,979 Posted October 16, 2012 Report Share Posted October 16, 2012 Sell him it back for a grand....see how much he wants it........... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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