Document everything, write down what has been said to you date and time it. Anything said to other people write that down aswell but make sure you declare that it wasn't said to you directly. When/if you go to court all this info will go in your favour! Trust me I have joint custody with my daughter who was born in 2002 (so before the new law) My name is on the birth certificate and I had done more with her than her mother, to this day she has spent more time with me than her mother. Point is she was doing all this sh1t threatning me with the CSA. I phoned the CSA up and asked how much I shoul