What you need to do mate is to get the idea into your current lady's head that it would be a really good idea if the 3 of you had some fun .........................
Where there's a will there's a way.
I'm saying no more about it, I don't know you lot well enough to say any more, but those that know, know.
As for fantasy woman, well sad though it might sound, the one I've got is the one I'm happy with, not least for the fact that if I ever fancy a bit of strange she helps me find her!!!!
sounds like shes very whas the word ,liberal minded, strong stuff,is she swedish