king 11,663 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 1 thing I will say to you all though.your kids are younger than mine.my oldest is 19 youngest 14. The amount of times I lied on the pillow in bed worrying about when they are older.thinking this and that. The worst worrying in my life. But that eased off a few years ago now. I know you all worry about the kids when they are older..but try not to worry everything will be ok in the end 2 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 44,175 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 1 minute ago, king said: 1 thing I will say to you all though.your kids are younger than mine.my oldest is 19 youngest 14. The amount of times I lied on the pillow in bed worrying about when they are older.thinking this and that. The worst worrying in my life. But that eased off a few years ago now. I know you all worry about the kids when they are older..but try not to worry everything will be ok in the end Only lads who have the experience of autistic kids will understand how much it means to hear that mate Thank you 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackmag 5,862 Posted December 3, 2020 Author Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 1 minute ago, WILF said: Only lads who have the experience of autistic kids will understand how much it means to hear that mate Thank you Second that wilf Quote Link to post Share on other sites
king 11,663 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 5 minutes ago, WILF said: My little lad had an incident with a teacher when he first started school, as you know lads temper can be an issue. They wanted him to colour in a clown, so he says “I don’t like clowns” Now the inexperienced teacher tried to force him and he just coloured the whole thing black so he “couldn’t see it” as he said. She told him off and he went and sat under a table. The next bit was the mistake, she pulled him out by force and he went nuts, he was only 5 and he must have been terrified. Two teachers physically removed him from the room and he was lashing out to get away and they put him in an office !! He must have been so scared. They phoned me and I went and got him. That one incident ruined school for him, he could not cope after that and that why we took him out and educate him at home. I don’t hold it against people, they just don’t get that kids on the spectrum just see the world different and us “normal” people find that a hard thing to fathom. We wouldn’t even consider it if we had never come across it. That's it they ain't trained for it and don't know how to work around the situation at all mate. My lad booted a teacher in the shin at about 8yr old.the headmaster was a right horrible fecker.he was stoped from interacting with my son after that.cams put a stop to immediately.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
king 11,663 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 3 minutes ago, WILF said: Only lads who have the experience of autistic kids will understand how much it means to hear that mate Thank you It's horrible mate. I'm not scared of any man or anything.but when I was on the pillow many a tear in the eye mate.and I'm not scared to admit it either. But just relax it will be ok 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackmag 5,862 Posted December 3, 2020 Author Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 4 minutes ago, king said: 1 thing I will say to you all though.your kids are younger than mine.my oldest is 19 youngest 14. The amount of times I lied on the pillow in bed worrying about when they are older.thinking this and that. The worst worrying in my life. But that eased off a few years ago now. I know you all worry about the kids when they are older..but try not to worry everything will be ok in the end I will be honest I was am the black sheep of the family not one of mine bother with Tom because he's austitc and has been outspoken with them but I'm not bothered he knows who has his back but I don't know about you lads but isn't it funny how quick some are to dismiss a kid who's different and then gets labelled a bad one because they don't understand autism 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 44,175 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 Out of likes lads but as you said, they all deserve one Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackmag 5,862 Posted December 3, 2020 Author Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 4 minutes ago, king said: It's horrible mate. I'm not scared of any man or anything.but when I was on the pillow many a tear in the eye mate.and I'm not scared to admit it either. But just relax it will be ok With you there king I have spent many a hour worrying Quote Link to post Share on other sites
king 11,663 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 4 minutes ago, Blackmag said: I will be honest I was am the black sheep of the family not one of mine bother with Tom because he's austitc and has been outspoken with them but I'm not bothered he knows who has his back but I don't know about you lads but isn't it funny how quick some are to dismiss a kid who's different and then gets labelled a bad one because they don't understand autism I'm a little bit like young tom mate.ive allways told my family straight.zero beating around the bush.and as a result I don't talk to a single 1 of them mother.sisters.auntys.uncles.cousins. It's easier just the wife the lads and me.peacfull in a way.. Look at the positive mate.you and the missus got tom all to yourself.win win I say And to be blunt feck the lot of them mate.. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 44,175 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 My niece has Down’s syndrome, she is a ripe old old age for a Down’s syndrome person being nearly 50. My brother took that girl everywhere with him all her life, always just treated her pretty normal......where he was, she was. I think she was as well known round South London as anyone ! Lol She still lives at home and it has been difficult at times but she has a job at the centre and does her bits and bobs at home. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
king 11,663 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 8 minutes ago, Blackmag said: With you there king I have spent many a hour worrying It must be an inbuilt thing worrying mate I don't know.the lad will be sound with a few years under his belt though Quote Link to post Share on other sites
king 11,663 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 3 minutes ago, WILF said: My niece has Down’s syndrome, she is a ripe old old age for a Down’s syndrome person being nearly 50. My brother took that girl everywhere with him all her life, always just treated her pretty normal......where he was, she was. I think she was as well known round South London as anyone ! Lol She still lives at home and it has been difficult at times but she has a job at the centre and does her bits and bobs at home. She's doing fine mate by the sound of it.independance and routine and keep themselves busy.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 44,175 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 Just now, king said: She's doing fine mate by the sound of it.independance and routine and keep themselves busy.. She is spot on mate, obviously I grew up with her as we are nearly the same age. Her brother (my nephew) is the same age as me and lives across the road From his dad with his family so it’s a comfort for my Brother that he is there. My Brother is in his 70s and his health isn’t great so it must be a worry for him. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackmag 5,862 Posted December 4, 2020 Author Report Share Posted December 4, 2020 8 minutes ago, king said: It must be an inbuilt thing worrying mate I don't know.the lad will be sound with a few years under his belt though Hopefully buddy 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 44,175 Posted December 4, 2020 Report Share Posted December 4, 2020 @king & @Blackmag How are your lads for swimming ? My little boy absolutely loves swimming, I think the sensory thing of being in the water is something that really benefits him Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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