Blackmag 5,870 Posted February 1, 2020 Report Share Posted February 1, 2020 (edited) I was always told the one true friend you have is your mum and after what my old girl has been through I totally agree always there for all her kids and grand kids and the corner stone to any family Edited February 1, 2020 by Blackmag 8 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 12,685 Posted February 1, 2020 Report Share Posted February 1, 2020 Awesome Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Greyman 25,295 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 12 hours ago, Blackmag said: I was always told the one true friend you have is your mum and after what my old girl has been through I totally agree always there for all her kids and grand kids and the corner stone to any family Sadly family are just, friends you have no say in, my mum is in a home not a 100 yards from my house and I drive past it twice a day, my old man drives past my front door to visit here twice a day yet our paths seldom cross, I have made the effort with my own kids to make sure they don’t feel the same, they are all here now having breakfast, kids, kids partners and grandson, but it’s not a given you only get out what you put in, most of my childhood memory’s are made up of beatings and locked doors, so why the f**k would you stay friends with that 9 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 12,685 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 Mine were / are great parents but to be fair they don’t have much to do with the grandkids at all shame really cos my in-laws dote over the kids but it is what it is and we all have a good relationship just mine don’t spend Any where near enough time with the grandkids... Ive told them aswell my old girl has the attitude of “ive done my bit I was a Good mum to you lot for years” lol 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 42,899 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 Got similar with my old girl kevboils my piss seeing my kids upset..... Unfortunately you can't choose your family 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 12,685 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 7 minutes ago, Daniel cain said: Got similar with my old girl kevboils my piss seeing my kids upset..... Unfortunately you can't choose your family It’s shame mate it will be to late before they realise I reckon Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 42,899 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 12 minutes ago, lurcherman 887 said: It’s shame mate it will be to late before they realise I reckon Kids ain't stupid kev... They soon realise.... My kids won't stay down there now, even if she offers.... Her loss Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 12,685 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 6 minutes ago, Daniel cain said: Kids ain't stupid kev... They soon realise.... My kids won't stay down there now, even if she offers.... Her loss Mate mine won’t go there either f***ing mad Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 42,899 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 Nuts my old girl don't bother, my Oldman remarried, works away, makes the effort for birthdays and Xmas, Mrs mother is gold as good but seriously ill... Mrs Oldman I wouldn't piss on if he was on ... Never once even held any of his 6 grandkids 1 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
peterhunter86 8,627 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 9 minutes ago, Daniel cain said: Kids ain't stupid kev... They soon realise.... My kids won't stay down there now, even if she offers.... Her loss My ma an da love seeing the kids, and love when I bring them down, but we rarely get down because I've a horrible fcukng sister that never paid a penny towards the house, but moans like fcuk if the kids are there,poor kids can't even drop a crumb or spill a drop of juice you'd think they were after driving through the gaff in a bulldozer ffs, it's not worth the hassle most times, Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lurcherman 887 12,685 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 Funny old thing family’s the mrs old girls having chemo at moment and it’s knocked her sick she started radio therapy in a couple weeks then hopefully she can start having them a bit more again she FaceTimes everyday though!! My old girls seen my new baby 3 times in 4 months 1 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jetro 5,349 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 1 hour ago, Greyman said: Sadly family are just, friends you have no say in, my mum is in a home not a 100 yards from my house and I drive past it twice a day, my old man drives past my front door to visit here twice a day yet our paths seldom cross, I have made the effort with my own kids to make sure they don’t feel the same, they are all here now having breakfast, kids, kids partners and grandson, but it’s not a given you only get out what you put in, most of my childhood memory’s are made up of beatings and locked doors, so why the f**k would you stay friends with that Have some idea of where your coming from greyman. Atb j 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Dinosaurs 2,008 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 My dad 95 my mum 93 Always been there for all us kids &their grandkids. All their grandkids visit them regularly & way i see it is they did well by me growing up so nows my turn/chance to look after them tho not so easy to help my dad with anything as hes still very independent bless him. Atb 3 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kinkell 787 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 My mother told my dad 50 odd years ago before she died not to lock the door at night incase any of my married sisters needed to come home.never got to know her as I was nine and she was 47 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FLATTOP 3,682 Posted February 2, 2020 Report Share Posted February 2, 2020 I have seen my Mother once in 30 years at my Grandmothers funeral and my old man walked out when I was 4 it’s a long story not to be discussed on a public forum but Greyman I get exactly where your coming from. If anything it’s made me stronger and more independent and focused. 6 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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