King your going to have to stop smoking, an the wife, if you don't you'll, get nowere mate, if you stop his money hell get a fag somewhere mate.
This could be a good thing, yours an the wife's health, will benifit drastically, as you know mate.
Trying to punish your way out of it won't work on its own, he see it as hypocritical of you,
Set the example mate, an you an family will come out other side, happier an healthier, atb mate