I know what your saying gnash,but you can have a good time without the debauchery,an if you have a good woman,you can still do all the things you want,hunt fish,training,etc an the hot dinner will be ready for ya without the nagging lol
running round shagging everything with a heartbeat,leads you astray,an some dont come back from it,eg leave a girl pregnant who you dont love or want to marry,an then the kid grows up without a proper family,bit selfish imo