Lads thanks, i will let you know how he is in a few days as today he just kept crying broke my heart as he is such a nice lad,i am just worried what it will do to him long term as he is special needs you would not know it unless you spoke to him as he is very together on the outside he is 27 and comes round and plays xbox with my lad 14 and sleeps over and has to call his mum to say night or he cant sleep,but his stinkers are here now and safe so he seemed more settled when i left only to call me as i walked threw the door to ask me can he stay here tonight,so he is on his way over now so goin