well guys i'm just gonna have to quiz her when she's slept the alcohol off,that's if i don't get the week long silent treatment from tommorrow,in the meantime i have to start packing or some thing,get ready for the inevitable'i don't want you here no more',i truly wish you guys don't have to go through this treatment,in the past i'd just shrug it off,but sometimes you get that gut feeling don't you,and i don't normally tell everyone on forums what's happening in my private life,that's the thanks you get for being a stepdad i suppose,but even if it's the worse for me,i'll just rebuild my life a