a mate of mine was once goin on holiday and as he got to the plane he bottled it and could not get on, so the holiday was cancelled. when he got home his wife organised a course for him i think airports do it where you go and they tell you all about flying what the noises are, how safe it is,and so on. got over his fear no problem in fact recently he had a flying lesson as a prezzie off his wife might be worth a call