Home schooling

[mC HULL 18,470]

1 minute ago, Blackmag said:

Cheers wilf much appreciated he has started taking a interest in politics and political history he's full of facts it was funny listening to him debate with some leftys that started on him over a comment on line he ruined them with facts and figures he reminded me of you when he said young blackmen make up 3% of males in london are responsible for 60% of murders on blacks he said 4% of the population are Muslim yet 18%of the prison population are Muslim and 90%of mass rapes are by Muslims and a load of other stuff 

Reminds me of me blackmag id torture my teachers with it more questions then they had answers for lol best thing they did for me was send me to a center were they took stolen motorbike cars to take part put together  etc but I was bored a that by 14 

Me best pal since 4 his  lad there trying to say has some but if  he has then my pal had it aswell because there identical not everyone's the same aye 

 

[Daniel cain 50,967]

45 minutes ago, mC HULL said:

This has always happened though mate as bad as it is knifes beaten to.death with a stick world's a nasty place 

But a little rumble at a school is that most of the time and threats do get made and if there going that route a change a school won't stop it 

When we was younger...the bullies had to physically grab hold of you to hurt / punch f**k out of you...we all know that ..NOW it's 24 hrs a day ,none stop on social media etc.youngsters can't get away from it....dont matter what f***ing school you move them too,it's constant,there's even  grown Men on this forum,that are no better...that's the way the worlds gone ...don't matter what your family name is,how hard you think you are...will always be some horrible little scummy cnut who will think they can just do what the f**k they like.....if they had had the fear of God put into them at a young age,Had a real man about the place...then things could be different ...manners cost f**k all,and respect is earned..

[mC HULL 18,470]

2 minutes ago, Daniel cain said:

When we was younger...the bullies had to physically grab hold of you to hurt / punch f**k out of you...we all know that ..NOW it's 24 hrs a day ,none stop on social media etc.youngsters can't get away from it....dont matter what f***ing school you move them too,it's constant,there's even  grown Men on this forum,that are no better...that's the way the worlds gone ...don't matter what your family name is,how hard you think you are...will always be some horrible little scummy cnut who will think they can just do what the f**k they like.....if they had had the fear of God put into them at a young age,Had a real man about the place...then things could be different ...manners cost f**k all,and respect is earned..

Id a agree dc 

And each case is different aint it but most of it is growing up apart a life normal life isnt all great and easy 

But its also Not all death doom and gloom 

[WILF 53,118]

1 hour ago, mC HULL said:

This has always happened though mate as bad as it is knifes beaten to.death with a stick world's a nasty place 

But a little rumble at a school is that most of the time and threats do get made and if there going that route a change a school won't stop it 

It’s not about fighting or learning lessons the hard way or any of that…..

Home school offers you a chance to change environments and learn how best suits you, to your time line, to your rules.

Changing environments applies to everyone, as in, you don’t have to associate with or be a scumbag just because you live in an area full of scumbags…..you can seek out more fulfilling things amongst more up together people if you want to…..so in Bendigos case, his boy is having to go to school in an environment that he don’t like and have to deal with c**ts he don’t want to…..that will be taking up most of his head space and his day, a simple change of environment and the ability to do things on his own terms amongst social circles of his own choosing is a way better opportunity than swimming in a lake of shit in cuntsville every day ! 
 

The old saying “sleep with dogs get fleas” is a truism, every switched on lad should put himself where he wants to be amongst people he wants to be around.

 

[Blackmag 6,892]

1 hour ago, mC HULL said:

Me best pal since 4 his  lad there trying to say has some but if  he has then my pal had it aswell because there identical not everyone's the same aye 

 

My lad is very similar to me in a lot of ways and I'm not autistic wilf lad maybe similar in many ways to wilf but won't be the same like you and your dad similar but not the same you know the saying the apple doesn't fall far from the tree mc 

[Franks dad 3,317]

6 hours ago, mC HULL said:

Id say all the autistic lads ive been about  the most rounded is one i grew up with he went to school with me from primary at somethings memory etc hes on a hole different level mind works different had some aggro over him at school  but I never ever seen him cry some licks he got 

Until a teacher shouted at him first time his mind hadnt processed that even then into secondary school now at a funeral last month hes with the lads that were in the rugby team had me thinking natures mad the ones hes with a  few of them  most likely you'd call bad and bullies at times even when young but those were the ones he was cracking on with they got a handshake and a cuddle they never bullied him the opposite  hes worked since school 

 

But id say theres alot more now then ever 

The autistic mind means we think different to you and process information differently to you and see the world through different eyes ….. but every one of us is different …. In our own autistic way ….. we could go down a big rabbit hole here with a four day hoer focused response…but we won’t for now 

[mC HULL 18,470]

1 minute ago, Franks dad said:

The autistic mind means we think different to you and process information differently to you and see the world through different eyes ….. but every one of us is different …. In our own autistic way ….. we could go down a big rabbit hole here with a four day hoer focused response…but we won’t for now 

Come on Frank im not clued up alot but am around a few kids with it to some degree be good to hear different views

[Franks dad 3,317]

13 minutes ago, mC HULL said:

Come on Frank im not clued up alot but am around a few kids with it to some degree be good to hear different views

you don’t have it to some degree , you are autistic or not …. You may  have differing symptoms but there’s only one level of autism…. Despite you may read or see online …

Mate that’s a really big ask and would take major brain power which I’m lacking after a hectic weekend , which I will share ended with me having a melt down and trashing my house … embarrassing as f**k ..

if you ask me a direct question about autistic I’ll be able to reply but, unless I’m in the right place you could be waiting weeks .  As  a rough summary…. It takes brain power and energy to deal with the lights in the bedroom when you wake up to the textures of your clothes ,getting the dog to the top of the road is taking more energy than working out a tax return …….
then you have to deal with scripting to get by talking to people , getting on the bus etc … then deal with people at work amd at the same time you are thinking about the next task and easiest way to do tea , and then you get something unexpected which totally wipes you out and then god forbid someone fecks with your routine …. And then on top of that everyone just thinks you are weird or rude or just a Cnut when you open your mouth …. Its not ideal if your a kid trying to get through school …. I failed miserably because of it . Unknown at the time … that’s half a lame sort of run down of it 

[Bendigo 2,365]

Thanks lads 

@WILF I value your words and posts on this 

@Blackmag  cheers pal. T is a great lad and we need to get em out fishing once the weather warms up

@mC HULL I really do get the point you are trying to make. My thoughts on this have come about due to numerous things not just having a few punch ups. The more I learn about other options than regular schooling the more I see better outcomes at every level for my lad. The thing that  makes my choices easier is that my boy is already well socialised and taking him out of the current school won't in any way isolate him from others. He's super social and confident.....his current situation is sucking that out of him. 

We are looking at a different school after the Easter holidays....but fck...the more you look at the realities of home schooling the more it opens your eyes. 

Been talking to a bloke who teaches first aid and his nephew was home schooled so he took him to work doing first aid courses one day a week and he's offered to take my lad now. The local army cadets is in the TA barracks which is a medical detachment....they said if he was knocking off first aid qualifications and getting a day a week in with my mate (who they know) then the would make use of my lad down there. Now although these two conversations aren't set in stone.... and were just half hearted if buts and maybes...it certainly gets your mind wandering about possibilities. The out come of 5 years at this secondary school is at most a handful of 2nd rate GCSEs.....3 years of first aid training and a language night school alone would be more useful that! That's before I've arranged a month in a mates engineering firm or another mates joinery workshop. I can arrange private maths and English. Fck me he could go out trapping moles do a project on starting a business....I'm sure my accountant would help him. 

Chances are him will start another school where he already has some good mates....but for now I'm getting sucked down a home schooling research rabbit hole. Fck I could send him to south Africa on a professional hunters course!

Edited 1 hour ago by Bendigo

[Halfhound 1,187]

What age is the chap Bendigo if you don’t mind me asking?

[mC HULL 18,470]

23 minutes ago, Franks dad said:

you don’t have it to some degree , you are autistic or not …. You may  have differing symptoms but there’s only one level of autism…. Despite you may read or see online …

Mate that’s a really big ask and would take major brain power which I’m lacking after a hectic weekend , which I will share ended with me having a melt down and trashing my house … embarrassing as f**k ..

if you ask me a direct question about autistic I’ll be able to reply but, unless I’m in the right place you could be waiting weeks .  As  a rough summary…. It takes brain power and energy to deal with the lights in the bedroom when you wake up to the textures of your clothes ,getting the dog to the top of the road is taking more energy than working out a tax return …….
then you have to deal with scripting to get by talking to people , getting on the bus etc … then deal with people at work amd at the same time you are thinking about the next task and easiest way to do tea , and then you get something unexpected which totally wipes you out and then god forbid someone fecks with your routine …. And then on top of that everyone just thinks you are weird or rude or just a Cnut when you open your mouth …. Its not ideal if your a kid trying to get through school …. I failed miserably because of it . Unknown at the time … that’s half a lame sort of run down of it 

Thats just a bit of u diagnosed adhd mate  

[Bendigo 2,365]

1 minute ago, Halfhound said:

What age is the chap Bendigo if you don’t mind me asking?

13. Obviously I'm not sending him to Africa or working in the next couple of years! I'm just enjoying thinking outside the box 

[Halfhound 1,187]

2 minutes ago, Bendigo said:

13. Obviously I'm not sending him to Africa or working in the next couple of years! I'm just enjoying thinking outside the box 

Loads of time to see what he’s interested in and what path he wants to take. 

[Franks dad 3,317]

3 minutes ago, mC HULL said:

Thats just a bit of u diagnosed adhd mate  

They are similar but autistic people have a more complicated brain structure if that’s the right word , adhd can be mediated, autism cant …. Autism is more complicated in the way your brain works , we literally think talk and see things differently…bizarre as it sounds …. you get tested to see if it’s adhd in your autistic assessment along with testing for global delay and learning difficulties as they could all be contributing to an individual’s condition…. 

[Franks dad 3,317]

13 minutes ago, mC HULL said:

Thats just a bit of u diagnosed adhd mate  

Added to say when you are autistic you can also have adhd and other learning difficulties as well ( haven’t been tested for adhd as a separate condition, it was just eliminated from my autistic diagnosis ….  Where as you can  just have adhd that is it , maybe along with depression and anxiety usually ,and that’s  more so ,to do with not knowing why you are like you are … 

Edited 1 hour ago by Franks dad