Daniel cain 49,366 Posted 4 hours ago Report Share Posted 4 hours ago 2 hours ago, dai dogs said: I’m thinking of f***ing the site work off iv had a bit of time off lately and think I just can’t do the bullshit anymore there’s no appreciation & carrying lads half my age Mondays are the worse lads staring into oblivion f****d up from the weekend depressed can’t even talk just waiting for the next payday to sniff it all away on the weekend It makes me laugh... on every site ,they are pushing the old Mental health card,it's good to talk to someone bollocks,come on lads,let's all hold hands and it's all self inflicted, because the soft cnuts can't control ,when too say No,work tomorrow,call it a night...grown men,spending all your wages ,living beyond their means,depriving your family/kids etc is f***ing pathetic ... Best thing Ive ever done,was walk away from the Site work and all the Jokers....2/3 days a week,and I pick and choose what I can be f****d to do these days...I feel a lot better in myself for it 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 50,957 Posted 4 hours ago Report Share Posted 4 hours ago 2 minutes ago, Daniel cain said: It makes me laugh... on every site ,they are pushing the old Mental health card,it's good to talk to someone bollocks,come on lads,let's all hold hands and it's all self inflicted, because the soft cnuts can't control ,when too say No,work tomorrow,call it a night...grown men,spending all your wages ,living beyond their means,depriving your family/kids etc is f***ing pathetic ... Best thing Ive ever done,was walk away from the Site work and all the Jokers....2/3 days a week,and I pick and choose what I can be f****d to do these days...I feel a lot better in myself for it It’s like this mate, if your 30 to 40 and stood round in a pub making regular trips to the bog with a load of other gonks that look just like you then it’s time to have a f***ing word with yourself !……..driving to work with all the hair falling out your nose and having nose bleeds when you have a mrs and a couple of nippers indoors depending on you is a c**ts turnout ! 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mitre 374 Posted 4 hours ago Report Share Posted 4 hours ago It's down to education not to touch the drugs also who you mix with special in young people peer pressure you can't always blame the parents I know a family who's granddaughter got hooked on smack they done everything to get her off the stuff even shopping her to the police themselves 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Moocher71 4,390 Posted 4 hours ago Report Share Posted 4 hours ago 5 minutes ago, mitre said: It's down to education not to touch the drugs also who you mix with special in young people peer pressure you can't always blame the parents I know a family who's granddaughter got hooked on smack they done everything to get her off the stuff even shopping her to the police themselves No you cannot blame anyone for the things we do ,I've seen lads girls from really rich families that are total scum bags that made every excuse in the world to get money from the parents and then went on to rob them blind and then started selling themselves for as hit,of course I've seen the ones from poorer back grounds but coke ,crack ,smack doesn't care who you are it's going to tear your life apart and your family, Drug dealers should be hammered,they should be a minimum sentence for class a of 10 years ,it would soon change people's minds to deal shit to are kids Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 50,957 Posted 4 hours ago Report Share Posted 4 hours ago 10 minutes ago, mitre said: It's down to education not to touch the drugs also who you mix with special in young people peer pressure you can't always blame the parents I know a family who's granddaughter got hooked on smack they done everything to get her off the stuff even shopping her to the police themselves Fun is one thing but anyone with half a brain knows smack is a leap into the abyss…..it’s drummed into everyone all their life, there’s nobody who don’t know exactly what it is ! Two completely different animals imho 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 50,957 Posted 3 hours ago Report Share Posted 3 hours ago (edited) 23 minutes ago, Moocher71 said: Drug dealers should be hammered,they should be a minimum sentence for class a of 10 years ,it would soon change people's minds to deal shit to are kids No it wouldn’t !……as it stands if you get pinched with a few kilos of class A you are getting weighed off with 18 year ! Sentences have never been so harsh and you couple them up with POCA orders and such like, penalty’s are tough mate ! But the money is the attraction and people will always want to experiment and have a good time, always have, always will. So you will always have demand and supply ! I think the best we can do as parents is change our kids circumstances so they don’t match our own when we was their age……hence, being a dad in the pub aged 35 doing gear probably isn’t setting the best example ! I didn’t give two fucks about the world aged 11 to 24 and I lived that way !……when I became a husband and a a dad I made dam sure my family never had my circumstances, I worked and put us into better things like being together, being involved with their lives at school, church, hobbies, showing them I loved their mum and respected her. I was lucky in that I knew very well the other side of life in all its forms and so could steer our life away from all that…….the best thing you can give kids is an example not a lecture imho, plus kids ain’t stupid, they know when someone giving them a lecture don’t know what the f**k they are talking about. Ive always been honest with my children from the ages I deemed it appropriate, I’ve told them “I can talk about this because I’ve been there and what I have now is better !” Edited 3 hours ago by WILF 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TOMO 29,163 Posted 3 hours ago Report Share Posted 3 hours ago 34 minutes ago, WILF said: No it wouldn’t !……as it stands if you get pinched with a few kilos of class A you are getting weighed off with 18 year ! Sentences have never been so harsh and you couple them up with POCA orders and such like, penalty’s are tough mate ! But the money is the attraction and people will always want to experiment and have a good time, always have, always will. So you will always have demand and supply ! I think the best we can do as parents is change our kids circumstances so they don’t match our own when we was their age……hence, being a dad in the pub aged 35 doing gear probably isn’t setting the best example ! I didn’t give two fucks about the world aged 11 to 24 and I lived that way !……when I became a husband and a a dad I made dam sure my family never had my circumstances, I worked and put us into better things like being together, being involved with their lives at school, church, hobbies, showing them I loved their mum and respected her. I was lucky in that I knew very well the other side of life in all its forms and so could steer our life away from all that…….the best thing you can give kids is an example not a lecture imho, plus kids ain’t stupid, they know when someone giving them a lecture don’t know what the f**k they are talking about. Ive always been honest with my children from the ages I deemed it appropriate, I’ve told them “I can talk about this because I’ve been there and what I have now is better !” Good post that 100% agree...my daughter as she got older ...17....18 ish started to ask about mine and the wife's time in ibiza....and what we got up to....we were honest with her... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Moocher71 4,390 Posted 3 hours ago Report Share Posted 3 hours ago 21 minutes ago, WILF said: No it wouldn’t !……as it stands if you get pinched with a few kilos of class A you are getting weighed off with 18 year ! Sentences have never been so harsh and you couple them up with POCA orders and such like, penalty’s are tough mate ! But the money is the attraction and people will always want to experiment and have a good time, always have, always will. So you will always have demand and supply ! I think the best we can do as parents is change our kids circumstances so they don’t match our own when we was their age……hence, being a dad in the pub aged 35 doing gear probably isn’t setting the best example ! I didn’t give two fucks about the world aged 11 to 24 and I lived that way !……when I became a husband and a a dad I made dam sure my family never had my circumstances, I worked and put us into better things like being together, being involved with their lives at school, church, hobbies, showing them I loved their mum and respected her. I was lucky in that I knew very well the other side of life in all its forms and so could steer our life away from all that…….the best thing you can give kids is an example not a lecture imho, plus kids ain’t stupid, they know when someone giving them a lecture don’t know what the f**k they are talking about. Ive always been honest with my children from the ages I deemed it appropriate, I’ve told them “I can talk about this because I’ve been there and what I have now is better !” educate kids ,I've seen 10 tear old peddle up to a car and pass over bars of shit ,they grow up seeing and being around gear and how much money it can bring in , nothing going to change that fact ,no education no little talks with mummy and daddy nothing because once they with their mates that talk is forgotten until they get in trouble and they in tears in a interview room with a parent and two plod ,every one thinks there kids different but a lot of parents don't know there children,they only see what the kids shoes at home , The problem is the system is to soft on those that need to be hammered and to harsh on those that need help , They will never stop the gear coming in but they can make the punishment that severe some will think twice , Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Moocher71 4,390 Posted 2 hours ago Report Share Posted 2 hours ago 7 minutes ago, TOMO said: Good post that 100% agree...my daughter as she got older ...17....18 ish started to ask about mine and the wife's time in ibiza....and what we got up to....we were honest with her... Tomo I was a rave head, started in late 80s and travelled all over UK and Europe and goa But we wasn't peddling coke,crack,smack that destroys a life ,that ruins communitys and puts people in their graves Of course people got rich out the raves but that's not like now ,they peddling death mate ,and it started in the 90s when the Pakistani gangs flooded city's ,towns with the shit ,then others saw you could earn big money and started selling, Youngsters can earn big money so why work,but if they see these dealers get big sentences they might never get involved in first place , I've worked with lots of young people and you no some just don't listen even to someone who's been their and done it . Lost a lot of friends over the years to the crap , no one starts off a junkie and not many make old bones Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Moocher71 4,390 Posted 2 hours ago Report Share Posted 2 hours ago 1 hour ago, WILF said: Fun is one thing but anyone with half a brain knows smack is a leap into the abyss…..it’s drummed into everyone all their life, there’s nobody who don’t know exactly what it is ! Two completely different animals imho And that comment alone tells me your clueless when it comes to the drug problem , different animals FFS Lots of people think like you and that's one of the problems,it's only a sniff at weekends it's not like it's smack FFS They go together, most dealers will peddle lights and darks , One to come up one to come down 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Moocher71 4,390 Posted 2 hours ago Report Share Posted 2 hours ago 3 hours ago, Blackmag said: Coke is everywhere loads taking it of all ages but ket seems to be the drug alot of youngsters are doing and physically it's destroying there stomach loads have to have bags fitted and mentally there just monged out of it I agree not enough is being done moocher from addicts that want or need help to the homeless even ex service men with PTSD are just forget about more needs doing for them all Ketamine along with party drugs are a big problem because they not like the ecstasy back in the day ,it's all mixed with all kinds of deadly crap ,in Europe you can walk Into a chemist and get your stuff checked before you use it ,they really need to be doing something like this in UK because they will always be those that want that high. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 50,957 Posted 2 hours ago Report Share Posted 2 hours ago 21 minutes ago, Moocher71 said: And that comment alone tells me your clueless when it comes to the drug problem , different animals FFS Lots of people think like you and that's one of the problems,it's only a sniff at weekends it's not like it's smack FFS They go together, most dealers will peddle lights and darks , One to come up one to come down If you say so squire I’ve sat in a room with a group of Dutch guys as they did Charlie to go up and horse to come down !…..men headed for the abyss in every sense of the word, if the gear didn’t get them something else would and nobody needed much of insight into life to see that’s how it was going to go. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Moocher71 4,390 Posted 2 hours ago Report Share Posted 2 hours ago 3 hours ago, fireman said: A habit is all consuming and the only mates you have are other junkies, when you stop or try to stop you have to stop everything in your world.Your mates,your whole way of life and if i can sort of put it this way?, try not thinking about hunting or say your every day job,stop seeing and talking to all your mates and then change every habit of every day and add on that feeling so ill sometimes you just want to die and you knowing it only takes a bag to send the suffering your feeling right then. It's our or there own faults that is true but it is a massive task and 1 in 20 is pretty good going,but you do have to hit your rock bottom and be just fed up of just surviving before you want out and are willing to walk the path of getting clean as it ain't a easy one..But nice one for your help and some will have had their lives changed because of it Moocher, good man.. Thank you 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Moocher71 4,390 Posted 1 hour ago Report Share Posted 1 hour ago 3 hours ago, saluki bouy said: All second that mate have to hit that rock bottom I did and what I’ve seen those that do are in with best chance well done Moocher heart breaking work that I’m sures hard to switch of from but when someone does get it it’s worth the losses two young lads in early 20s I worked through the step program with just met up in Thailand one moved to Oz once he got through and they arranged when the other got six month they’d meet that pic of the two of them together clean and sober they posted that’s recovery to me Like you mate I went through it ,probably took me bit longer but I come out other side and I look back thinking what a f***ing waste, once I got clean I got a whippet and I made my addiction lamping , ferreting etc doing the stuff I did as a kid with me brothers and I went back to work but felt something missing so started doing voulentry work then got job with criminal justice team then worked for a rehabilitation centre , I gave my job up because I couldn't do it anymore I got sick of seeing people one day and hearing they was found on a bench dead few days after they left . I never judge anyone,all of them have problems none of them was born that way and with help some might turn that corner 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 50,957 Posted 1 hour ago Report Share Posted 1 hour ago 3 minutes ago, Moocher71 said: Like you mate I went through it ,probably took me bit longer but I come out other side and I look back thinking what a f***ing waste, once I got clean I got a whippet and I made my addiction lamping , ferreting etc doing the stuff I did as a kid with me brothers and I went back to work but felt something missing so started doing voulentry work then got job with criminal justice team then worked for a rehabilitation centre , I gave my job up because I couldn't do it anymore I got sick of seeing people one day and hearing they was found on a bench dead few days after they left . I never judge anyone,all of them have problems none of them was born that way and with help some might turn that corner Fair play to you, a very noble thing to do. I was chatting to some ex junkie geezer years ago and my opinion at the time was “glad you made it, but when you was a degenerate junkie after the first couple of efforts to help you we should have just done away with you because you knew, everyone knows and you made that choice anyway” Nobody is going to tell me that using Charlie and being uptogether with a load of sorts wrapped you is the same as being curled up in the corner with no teeth in your head or handing out blowjobs down the docks for a tenner because it f***ing isn’t !……anyone who says well “I started with a bit of this and just naturally progressed to that” is a f***ing lier ! No, they made a choice to start with something and then made another choice to do something totally f***ing stupid for one reason or another……everyone has a story, everyone could make an excuse but ultimately you don’t have to be a victim of your circumstances, nobody does. It’s f***ing lame to suggest that nobody knows and it’s not their fault because they do and it is ! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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