tb25 4,626 Posted October 19, 2020 Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 Anyone ever been diagnosed with this. I struggled for years with mental health and drink but after being sighed of work recently due to a bit of a brake down this is were they say I am..also very narsitic. Anyone live with this and can form normal relationships and frendenships. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 Can I ment Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Born Hunter 17,639 Posted October 19, 2020 Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 Understanding the problem is a big step. Sorry to hear that you're struggling but you're a lot closer to getting right now. Can't help but just wanted to show a bit of support. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 Sound mate..I new there was something more than just depressing states of mind as I never felt that. This is the first doctor in 30 who I have a greed with all he said. Back at hospital Thursday for a 4 day assessment. Luckily work understands as being of I'll dont pay my rent Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Astanley 11,478 Posted October 19, 2020 Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 (edited) BPD ,is a pretty broad spectrum ,you will probably benefit from some cognitive therapy plus medication ,push your GP on it ,,,it's one of the things they tend to throw medication at and forget about it ,..drink is definitely a no no . Edited October 19, 2020 by Astanley Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 They have told me they dont use medication for it now mate...more a therapy thing. Am just glad a doctor seen it for more than the drink tbh. Be f****d if I go through my 40s like I did my 20s and 30s.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 Although am on medication now for paranoia .that will still in place. I'll no for Thursday Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Astanley 11,478 Posted October 19, 2020 Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 1 minute ago, tb25 said: Although am on medication now for paranoia .that will still in place. I'll no for Thursday When you go to your appointment ,see if they can fit max in 1 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 Twat Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Born Hunter 17,639 Posted October 19, 2020 Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 7 minutes ago, tb25 said: Am just glad a doctor seen it for more than the drink tbh. Be f****d if I go through my 40s like I did my 20s and 30s.. I've 'known' a lass for the last ten years that I'd swear is Borderline and extremely narcissistic. I say known, because she's incapable of holding any sort of relationship down long term without wrecking it. IMO drink is a massive problem for her and should be the first thing she stopped if she was ever serious about getting right. But it's a vicious circle and just telling someone to 'be strong' mentally is like putting someone under and barbel with five plates a side and saying the same while it breaks their back. Anyway it sounds like you might be heading in the right direction. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 42,909 Posted October 19, 2020 Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 Asking/Getting help is the first step, drink, cocaine etc will not do you any favours, especially if your on anti depressants, got a mate in the same boat... f***ing heartbreaking to see him some days. He found it helpful to just be able to let it out and talk to someone. I sincerely hope you come through it mate and things pick up for you. I'm here if you ever need a chat Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 Its frustrating that I carnt just stap out of it.. Makes you feel weak in its self.. I generally gonna put 100 percent in to this shit..am sick of just carrying on and gaining nothing. Cheers Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 Eating has become a problem.i work quite a hard job up to 2 weeks a go.12 hours nights but only eat 2 days out of 6 so keeping my strength up has became a probkem Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 3 minutes ago, maxhardcore said: All The Best going forward TB25 but as has been said try keep off the drink or any substances and take each day at a time whilst getting professional help . My drinking is literally nothing now... Witch is f****d up in itself as am a big drinker.. Cheers max Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 42,909 Posted October 19, 2020 Report Share Posted October 19, 2020 28 minutes ago, tb25 said: Its frustrating that I carnt just stap out of it.. Makes you feel weak in its self.. I generally gonna put 100 percent in to this shit..am sick of just carrying on and gaining nothing. Cheers My best mate has said the same things.. It will take time but things will look up, that I garentee youmy mate has just taken on his grand daughter full time as her mum didn't want her, having that to focus on is helping him... He worked in the family bisness for yrs.. Got a different job now, that seems to of made a difference I used to work long hrs shopfitting... Used to get me down tbf, not eating, sleeping tidy soon catches up with you...the thought of getting home to my family is what kept me going. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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