Moll. 1,793 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 Marv, i think many people display autistic type behaviours due to neglect rather than the condition. Neglect as in parents not interacting with children anymore, no in home teaching, no thought as to how their children will develop, as they now rely on other people to do this, whilst they are always on their phone's texting, or romancing their latest flames. They have no aspirations for their children's future as they have none for their own. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 50,763 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 When I was a kid ADD, ADHD, HIV and R.E.S.P.E.C.T. find out what it means to me, wasnt invented!! You had: Bad kids with shit parents Bad kids with good parents Good kids with good parents Good kids with shit parents And for everything else you had "little b*****ds" Things seemed more simple then................... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GrCh 856 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 (edited) What are your main worries regarding comprehensive schools dude with his autisim, i suppose you have to meet him to be honest just abit worried he'll get bullied. Luckily when he starts his big brother will be in year 11. Edited February 14, 2012 by GrCh Quote Link to post Share on other sites
budharley 945 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 What are your main worries regarding comprehensive schools dude with his autisim, i suppose you have to meet him to be honest just abit worried he'll get bullied. Luckily when he starts his big brother will be in year 11. Hi mate im in same boat my cousin is severely autistic but he will be going to a school for disabled kids but my son has down syndrome hes only two but weve been told he will go to mainstream and im not looking forward to him going to secondry school at all but weve been told he will benifit more from mainstream as he is quite advanced Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 What are your main worries regarding comprehensive schools dude with his autisim, i suppose you have to meet him to be honest just abit worried he'll get bullied. Luckily when he starts his big brother will be in year 11. Hi mate im in same boat my cousin is severely autistic but he will be going to a school for disabled kids but my son has down syndrome hes only two but weve been told he will go to mainstream and im not looking forward to him going to secondry school at all but weve been told he will benifit more from mainstream as he is quite advanced I think kids will always bully & be bullied , seems par for the course sadly, schools do seem to jump on bullying a lot quicker than they did in the late 70's when i was still at school It was things like having glasses or ginger hair , or being to tall or to fat whatever, bullys will also bully others in life generally , it dont help the worried parent though , I have been there with my eldest lad , but all it took in his case was a day when the other kids were not in a group & he sorted them 1 by 1 , he seriously lost it with the biggest lad so much so he was suspended for a week , but I didnt punish him because he had suffered for months at the hands of bullys & he simply dealt with each lad one at a time & that was it over & done with Quote Link to post Share on other sites
forest of dean redneck 12,023 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 eldest stepson was diagnosed/statemented at 3 with behavioural/learning problems. he had full one to one support at primary school including breaks. just before he started secondary school an after years of harrasment from us he was diagnosed with pervasive developmental disorder and global devolpemental delay . which is a form of dyspraxia last thursday i had to get him from school as he had thrown a chair at a pupil who had been teasing him and who threw a pen at his face. now the school want him to leave an attend a new school nearer home.[he still attends his old one about 12 mile away] hes always in trouble at school as even with full one to one support he is aways getting into arguments with pupils ,we feel the support is not working close enough with him.an the school should be more stricter in stopping kids teasing him as he cant understand or cope with it hes always complaing of headaches. second eldest stepson was diagnosed at 3 an went to school full time since 3 an half he is at top of the spectrum , his label is severe infantile autism he is 12 an can barely say a word,cannot sign an they are trying to toilet train him. he has to wear a harness in transport an headbutts,kicks etc he also has pica an eats non edible substance like plaster out of walls,leylandi trees an the other day sneaked in kitchen when his mum was on phone an ate some karvol capsules. so we have 2 kids, 18 months between them but different ends of the autism spectrum from each other. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
poacher3161 1,766 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 One things for sure any kids who have autisum and have the misfortune to have bad parents dont stand a chance and i dont know if its just me but autisum seems more common now than it did 40 years ago. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Strong Stuff 2,171 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 eldest stepson was diagnosed/statemented at 3 with behavioural/learning problems. he had full one to one support at primary school including breaks. just before he started secondary school an after years of harrasment from us he was diagnosed with pervasive developmental disorder and global devolpemental delay . which is a form of dyspraxia last thursday i had to get him from school as he had thrown a chair at a pupil who had been teasing him and who threw a pen at his face. now the school want him to leave an attend a new school nearer home.[he still attends his old one about 12 mile away] hes always in trouble at school as even with full one to one support he is aways getting into arguments with pupils ,we feel the support is not working close enough with him.an the school should be more stricter in stopping kids teasing him as he cant understand or cope with it hes always complaing of headaches. second eldest stepson was diagnosed at 3 an went to school full time since 3 an half he is at top of the spectrum , his label is severe infantile autism he is 12 an can barely say a word,cannot sign an they are trying to toilet train him. he has to wear a harness in transport an headbutts,kicks etc he also has pica an eats non edible substance like plaster out of walls,leylandi trees an the other day sneaked in kitchen when his mum was on phone an ate some karvol capsules. so we have 2 kids, 18 months between them but different ends of the autism spectrum from each other. You Sir, must be the most patient man in Britain. That must be some woman you've got that you've stuck around for her, even just reading that post I know I wouldn't be up to it. Hat's off to you! I hope she appreciates your support! 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Marvin 193 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 Marv, i think many people display autistic type behaviours due to neglect rather than the condition. Neglect as in parents not interacting with children anymore, no in home teaching, no thought as to how their children will develop, as they now rely on other people to do this, whilst they are always on their phone's texting, or romancing their latest flames. They have no aspirations for their children's future as they have none for their own. This is so true and i feel as each generation grows the social interaction gene will whither further away. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Marvin 193 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 eldest stepson was diagnosed/statemented at 3 with behavioural/learning problems. he had full one to one support at primary school including breaks. just before he started secondary school an after years of harrasment from us he was diagnosed with pervasive developmental disorder and global devolpemental delay . which is a form of dyspraxia last thursday i had to get him from school as he had thrown a chair at a pupil who had been teasing him and who threw a pen at his face. now the school want him to leave an attend a new school nearer home.[he still attends his old one about 12 mile away] hes always in trouble at school as even with full one to one support he is aways getting into arguments with pupils ,we feel the support is not working close enough with him.an the school should be more stricter in stopping kids teasing him as he cant understand or cope with it hes always complaing of headaches. second eldest stepson was diagnosed at 3 an went to school full time since 3 an half he is at top of the spectrum , his label is severe infantile autism he is 12 an can barely say a word,cannot sign an they are trying to toilet train him. he has to wear a harness in transport an headbutts,kicks etc he also has pica an eats non edible substance like plaster out of walls,leylandi trees an the other day sneaked in kitchen when his mum was on phone an ate some karvol capsules. so we have 2 kids, 18 months between them but different ends of the autism spectrum from each other. You dude are a fecking legend, you deserve a medal the size of a bin lid, i work with clients and families and see the effect frustration has right across the board, from the diagnosed to the carer. A true gent 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
blan89 159 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 One things for sure any kids who have autisum and have the misfortune to have bad parents dont stand a chance and i dont know if its just me but autisum seems more common now than it did 40 years ago. I believe autism shares all the same symptoms of mercury poisoning and until recently all our jabs where mercury based. My cousins got aspergers and he gets on fine in school,everyone likes him because he's so crazy and doesn't care what anyone thinks. having said that he's a danger to himself and those around him. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Marvin 193 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 What are your main worries regarding comprehensive schools dude with his autisim, i suppose you have to meet him to be honest just abit worried he'll get bullied. Luckily when he starts his big brother will be in year 11. Bullying takes many forms dude, people targeted because of colour, disfigurement, mental impairment, musical tastes, clothing preference even something as silly as being female in a male dominated arena. Perpetrators have a whole spectrum of facilities open to them for which they can target their victims, internet bullying being a faster growing medium, and alarmingly growing faster than face to face verbal assaults due to the anonymity afforded to the cowards who feel the need to hide their own social lacking by winning praise and cyber back slapping from other's. Not a direct dig at yourself GrCh, but something maybe you should bare in mind when targeting women to bully and belittle on internet forums, stand back and take into consideration how you feel towards your relative and how little the excuse of it being "just banter" would mean when offered as an excuse to yourself..... ATB dude Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Marvin 193 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 One things for sure any kids who have autisum and have the misfortune to have bad parents dont stand a chance and i dont know if its just me but autisum seems more common now than it did 40 years ago. I believe autism shares all the same symptoms of mercury poisoning and until recently all our jabs where mercury based. My cousins got aspergers and he gets on fine in school,everyone likes him because he's so crazy and doesn't care what anyone thinks. having said that he's a danger to himself and those around him. Your avatar made me smile as when i was first introduced to the asperger syndrome, one of the traits described to me was, the sufferer could walk into a cowboy brawl in a bar and not even realise the danger they could be in, once you know how an individual ticks, they can be amongst the best people you will ever meet. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Moll. 1,793 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 alarmingly growing faster than face to face verbal assaults due to the anonymity afforded to the cowards who feel the need to hide their own social lacking by winning praise and cyber back slapping from other's. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
forest of dean redneck 12,023 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 shit stop you lot, @ strongstuff na she thinks i can the biggest arsehole going at times an shes probably right on most of them lol @ marvin ,it is frustrating an can lead to some big rows,we have split up once before. it doesnt help that we as parents know whats right but the lea an the respite givers that have got the "degrees" an done a course think they know whats best ie schools. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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