First of all Stig, all the very best for your mum, heres my list of lost loved ones, wife, mum sister dad brother, and several friends, eldest of family to go, 55, youngest 21, as for myself, im 67 and thank god im in the best of health, moral of this little outburst is this, live each day to the full, im blessed with a fantastic sense of humour, its got me through